The titles says all
For context I just finished my bachelor’s and I’m confused as fuck also I really don’t wanna be in the third world now
I’m in my early/mid forties and still feel lost occasionally.
I think it’s a thing about being an adult. It’s not to be feared but embraced. Besides, it means you are thinking and not just doing.
The wilderness gives you time to find your own direction.
Still, it is a little disquieting. You’ll make it through, I promise, but you’ll end up back there too.
Congratulations on finishing your bachelor. Do you already have a job lined up?
It’s okay to feel lost, most of us do at times. It comes and go.
If it makes you feel any better I grew up in and went to school in the US and I felt lost when I graduated.
All the time. Ita scary, but in the end we keep on going. It gets better sometimes.
My final parent passed away recently, and after a chain reaction of events, my older sisters have begun to ghost me, and anyone else I might care about is hundreds of miles away. I feel so aimless and without any sense of autopilot/instinct that I feel like the wind could drift me anywhere.
Hey you know it’s gonna be alright
Maybe take a trip
And sorry for your loss
Thanks. I wish it seemed like it will be, certainly at least one of my circumstances would have to miraculously change.
Is that Thailand? If I had to be in the third world, I think that’s where I’d pick.
I’m well out of your age bracket, so I don’t know that my current ennui is comparable to the rudderless feelings of that age. I remember it, but I just kinda bumble-fucked my way through it. I believe things tend to work out and eventually you’ll find the place life is preparing you for.
