Edit: thanks everyone for the suggestions!
Do keep them coming as it might be helpful for others who come across this, since it seems quite a few users are (understandably) bleeding from lemmy.world these days, like myself


I was looking for a solid instance to move to, but I’m getting burned out from trying to find the perfect instance that:

  • is based in a country with reasonable privacy reputation (if it still fits the bill, outside Europe too is fine)
  • allows creating communities without admin approval (I’m willing to try getting into one of those too if needed, hopefully it would be accepting of creating niche communities though)
  • doesn’t defederate indiscriminately

The tool I used is lemmyverse.net but it seems the filtering isn’t working great, or I just don’t understand it, e.g. I filter by Italian language and the only Italian instance I know (feddit.it) doesn’t show up, while a slew of irrelevant ones is listed (Lemmy Português is there??)

Sorry if I sound so needy, maybe I’m just overthinking it, since posts are public and indexable by anyone. Do say so, if I should chill out and just pick one of the usual ones like lemm.ee etc.

P.S. I would love to self-host, but I’m currently not able to either, I don’t have enough technical expertise.

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My instance, https://lemmings.world, fits all of that! Servers in Germany, you can create communities and all defederations are evaluated based on how it affects the instance’s users.

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Oh that sounds awesome, I’ll be trying it out soon then, thanks for your service!! <3

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Sopuli.xyz has been serving me nicely!

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I also am on Sopuli and I like it!

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Same here!

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feddit.de and feddit.it

the German one is pretty big.

the italian one “require” you to speak Italian.

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feddit.it

Yeah I don’t know how to feel about it, if I could create communities but I was restricted to keep them Italian only, then I’d be cutting out a large part of the population.

I’ll take feddit.de into consideration tho

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You’re not, we also have English communities like https://feddit.it/c/askitaly And you’re free to make post in English in italian communities using the English tag

The only thing they have at registration is that you need to write a sentence in “some regional italian slang” And that’s basically serve the purpose to restrict a little bit sign in not to finish like lemmy.world targeting italian speakers

But it’s actually pretty easy

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Oh that makes sense actually, it’s an interesting admission process, I would probably (totally) gravely offend my culture if I tried writing in my dialect that I already barely speak, but I’ll pay the price if have to lol

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feddit.de is home <3

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As per standard procedure:

Sprich Deutsch, du Hurensohn!

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Ze saym proseedjah ess ev’ree yeer.

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Definitely. Am German living abroad, so it’s a great instance for keeping up with local stuff.

As for privacy, I don’t expect anything to be private anywhere on the internet. But for a lemmy instance I’d hope that the admins are a) running it on secure infrastructure (firewalled, etc.) and b) they’re not just handing off email addresses to the biggest bidder.

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Thanks for the suggestions!

I think you may be looking for smaller servers.

Indeed, that’s the objective, outages aside, spreading out the load will do good in any case I hope :)

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