I just realised that “like it’s your first time” has a positive connotation I guess, but like… motherfucker? Do most people have non-awful first-time experiences of sex? Between garbage sex ed and cisheteronormativity I just can’t imagine. I doubt it was even momentous for most people tbh? Idk.
I think its normal to remember who, where, and when but thats about it. First sex is almost never good and most sex isnt memorable tbh.
Maybe ZWQbpkzl took too many W’s and they all became L’s retroactively because of repetition 🤔
I barely even remember, let alone have an opinion on it, i cant say it was great. I got my sex ed from the original season of skins.
it was dogshit. we were pretending to pay attention to Mean Girls for 30 minutes until it happened and it literally took me like 15 minutes to put it in her either cause we were way too drunk or she was clenching too much out of anxiety or something
movies have given people brain rot, your first time is universally awkward as fuck because you literally have no idea what you’re doing as far as muscle memory goes
even if it’s good you’re probably not going to look back on it more fondly than later encounters where you actually know what you’re doing and what you’re looking for in a partner
I remember my first time like the time I first thought to myself “wow I love being cis”
it never fuckin happened
I will keep it as real as possible with u - if u did not have sex during your teen years you dodged a MASSIVE bullet.
lmao, i was such a walking pile of eggy emotional issues, restrictive parents, and crying that there was a solid 0% chance i’d ever get laid as a teenager. i still don’t feel like i “dodged a bullet” though
I mean I legit unironically think it’s better to miss out during your teens, feels less good if you also miss out in your 20s
I haven’t been single since I was 14 though and all I got was a fucking boatload of trauma that’s taken twelve years and counting to work through
Picking up knowledge to use later is what I’d recommend
Reading some books on trans sex and such. FTW is a good start too.
It’s far better when you know what your doing and get good with just touch and how to play with sensation.
Those are things you dont get taught. You can teach yourself tho.
