I wanted to include links to other related communities in this community. I was trying to come up with terms for all these related relationship types, and then I remembered that this venn existed. I’ve seen numerous versions of this previously. This one happens to come from (https://polyadvisor.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/nonmonogamy3-large-768x512.png) or REALLY ENORMOUS (https://www.xeromag.com/sexualinformatics/nonmonogamy2.5.2.gif) See, I even credited my source. :-D

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it’s a nice diagram, but it’s not a Venn diagram

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Cool, what term would you use to describe this diagram?

(https://www.splashlearn.com/math-vocabulary/geometry/venn-diagram)

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e.g. the religious one only intersects with unicorn….

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bunch of overlapping rectangles….

a venn diagram shows all possible intersections within groups… and is kinda pointless past 4….

this one seems to be just intentionally over complicating things for entertainment

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I was going to correct you but you’re actually right. The term for this is a Euler diagram. I think they’re more useful.

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I’m pretty sure “intentionally over complicating things for entertainment” overlaps significantly with most forms of “Non-monogamy”, and with “the human experience”. ;-) The pertinent question is, which of these rectangles/ explanatory examples fits for a given person, and which one’s don’t? I believe this diagram was developed to help us understand where we fit in the poly-schema we’ve developed.

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Here’s the article on Polyadvisor explaining the brainchild of Franklin Veaux, author of More Than Two - (https://polyadvisor.com/the-venn-diagram-of-polyamory/)

And from Franklin Veaux’s Blog, An update (December 20, 2017) to the Map of Non-Monogamy (https://blog.franklinveaux.com/2017/12/an-update-to-the-map-of-non-monogamy/)

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There is some middle ground between “you guys go do that kinky stuff, I don’t want to hear about it” and “my husband visits a pro domme”

“Do you want to try my new paddle today? Not today? Ok”

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“Dragon Con, need I say more?”

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Solo polyamory, relationship anarchy, and hierarchical stuff I think need to be better represented.

I avoid a lot of stuff I consider to be hierarchical nonsense. Stuff like “I need permission from my other partner for stuff I do with you”. Anything with “veto power” is right out.

Con sex is probably over represented? I don’t know if that deserves a whole bubble on its own. Seems like a more specific instance of something else.

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Polyamory (from Ancient Greek πολύς (polús) ‘many’, and Latin amor ‘love’) is the practice of, or desire for, romantic relationships with more than one partner at the same time, with the informed consent of all partners involved.[1][2] Some people who identify as polyamorous believe in consensual non-monogamy with a conscious management of jealousy and reject the view that sexual and relational exclusivity (monogamy) are prerequisite for deep, committed, long-term, loving relationships.[3] Others prefer to restrict their sexual activity to only members of the group, a closed polyamorous relationship that is usually referred to as polyfidelity.[4][5]

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