Van de Velde was booed and jeered while competing at the Games. Dutch Olympic officials went to lengths to protect him from the press during the event.

He has now opened up to Dutch publication NOS about his experience, admitting that while he anticipated backlash, the intensity of it took him by surprise. "I definitely had a moment of breaking down, both before the tournament and during it. But I thought ‘I’m not going to give others the power to bully me away or get me away’.

181 points

I’m sorry… you feel like you’re the wronged party here?

Is this dude a fucking sociopath?

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Probably, considering he groomed a child in another country over the internet before he traveled there and raped her repeatedly.

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He was proclaimed innocent of grooming. Because he did not groom her. Do people not know basic details of a case before they start spouting nonsense on the internet?

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Excuse me? What do you think happened, she seduced him?

She was twelve years old.

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He’s pulling out a smaller version of the DARVO tactic. Sexual predators do that quite a bit when they get caught.

Deny, attack, reverse victim and offender.

“The audience was wrong to boo me! They’re the bullies!” Meanwhile he completely ignores why he got booed.

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Well maybe you shouldn’t have raped a child, dipshit.

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Multiple times. And only got a year in prison for it.

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Multiple was unknown to me. Even worse. And this article was the first time I saw that he travelled to another country to do so. Wow. I wonder how this has affected the victim.

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I definitely had a moment of breaking down, both before the tournament and during it. But I thought ‘I’m not going to give others the power to bully me away or get me away’

Yes. Don’t let anyone have power over you, like a 19 year old would over a 12 year old. Don’t let them bully you, rapey mcrapeface.

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Bully you? Motherfucker, you raped a 12 year old multiple times and kept going when she said you were hurting her.

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This, I support criminal rehabilitation but only if you’ve served your time correctly, never expected this to be condoned in Europe amongst other places, I think he deserves to at least serve his full conviction time

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I’d be a little more understanding if he seemed remorseful at all. He does not.

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79 points

And he still hasn’t apologized for what he did.

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He also doesn’t consider himself a pedophile despite grooming and raping a child multiple times.

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Please do show evidence of this.

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He literally said it during the interview this article is about.

And I quote:

I did something wrong 10 years ago. I have to take that. But hurting the people around me, whether it be Matthew (his teammate) or my wife or my child… that goes too far for me.

And from a previous interview in 2018 (in Dutch): https://nos.nl/l/2240281

I did what I did. I can’t reverse it, so I’ll have to live with the consequences. You may judge me, of course. It is the biggest mistake of my life.

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