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That was probably the first time we did anything dirty. Up until then my wife and I were very vanilla with each other. Good, passionate sex, but nothing more than piv in two or three positions and a lot of me eating her out.

One day we had one of these intense talks about our relationship and somehow landed on our sex life. She expressed some things, I expressed some and so I told her that in porn, I really liked it, when the guy cums on her tits. (Most will count this as vanilla, but here we are.)

Anyway - We got on with our day as usual until it was time to go grocery shopping. „And when we get back, we can try out your fantasy.“ My heart was racing and I never got through the supermarket that fast.

When we got back, she took off her top, pulled my dick out and jerked me onto her big boobs. I was happy as a clam. 10/10 experience.

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11 points

This is so cute! Yay relationship goals!

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8 points

😊

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2 points

That’s a keeper :-)

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1 point

100%

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19 points

I told my first gf I was bi and she brought over her other boyfriend to tie me up and fuck my ass <3

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11 points

Damn thats intense

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I have a CNC kink. I have done one scene with a partner I have built up trust with, and am currently discussing another scene with a new partner.

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10 points

it took me a good few moments to realize you probably didn’t mean computer numerical control.

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Hahaha, well, that CNC is kinda sexy too

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9 points

This is probably mine too. 0 to fisting while fighting back was so intense, just knowing I couldn’t stop it. I don’t even really like the fisting (when the guy pops his hand back out it is unsettlingly close feeling to childbirth) but he knew it was the far edge of what I am willing to do. We didn’t work it all out ahead of time as we had a lot of experience with each other.

It is both hot and sexy and also upsetting and cathartic and just overall a peak experience.

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That’s awesome. Though I may have not made it clear, I am the aggressor.

Many women I have spoken to love the catharsis of the scenes, so that definitely seems to be common to the kink.

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Yeah I am glad there are guys into it, and in an ethical way - I can’t do the other side, someone who says no just shuts me down, turns me right off. But for me saying ‘please no’ is even hotter than ‘please’ somehow. I gave up on trying to understand or fix it once I figured out that submissive was not equal to passive at all, wasn’t some form of laziness.

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For me it was was anal play. I have always had an anal fetish that I was a bit ashamed of. At some point I brought it up to my wife and to my suprise she was open to it.

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3 points

In her, or you, or both?

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7 points

Yes

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Mostly in her. Not because I don’t enjoy it, but I’m very much the dominant and ‘active’ part in bed. I enjoy playing with her and teasing her. She enjoys just leaning back and letting me play.

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I like tease and denial stuff. My ex got into it for me. The first night we spent together, he ruined my orgasm perfectly and then locked me in chastity for 3 months.

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