Friend: Brings up really cool idea for something to do
Me: Awesome! When do you wanna do it?
Friend: blank stare uhhh, I’ll have to figure it out, this week isn’t good
EVERY TIME
They don’t understand that the planning and setting expectations is what enables me to have fun.
“Who’s going?”
“How many people will be there?”
“How far of a drive is it?”
“What’s parking like?”
“How expensive is it there?”
These are all very important questions.
Bro we could use that in our group, we are at the point every few weeks someone says we should meetup and do something and we all say “yeah!” then nothing until a few weeks later someone else suggests we do something.
I prefer to contribute nothing then pull out last min at the slightest inconvenience.