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Friend: Brings up really cool idea for something to do

Me: Awesome! When do you wanna do it?

Friend: blank stare uhhh, I’ll have to figure it out, this week isn’t good

EVERY TIME

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I’ve started to schedule cool ideas for my friend group because otherwise they absolutely never happen

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Unles you both agreed to a leader follower dynamic, When you bring up something cool to do and no one pitches in to help or suggest to take the weight off of only one person doing all the planning just to keep all a good time, then you’ll get it.

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26 points

They don’t understand that the planning and setting expectations is what enables me to have fun.

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21 points

“Who’s going?”

“How many people will be there?”

“How far of a drive is it?”

“What’s parking like?”

“How expensive is it there?”

These are all very important questions.

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“Who are you and why are you texting me at 4am”

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7 points

Don’t be so freaked out. It’s only 2 AM in my timezone.

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3 points

Bruh you comin out or not?

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2 points

They are tho

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These are all the questions my girlfriend asks me all the time and I give her the deer-in-the-headlights look.
I really need her in my life lol

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Bro we could use that in our group, we are at the point every few weeks someone says we should meetup and do something and we all say “yeah!” then nothing until a few weeks later someone else suggests we do something.

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Huh, I didn’t realize my friends were on Lemmy…

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I’ve taken to just scheduling things for my friend group. Kinda sucks that I have to take initiative but I like actually doing things more than hanging onto the idea of maybe doing things at some later point

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17 points

I prefer to contribute nothing then pull out last min at the slightest inconvenience.

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Oh damn. The shirt I was gonna wear is stinky. Might as well just cancel plans. 😏

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