Some time ago, I was seeing a post online about “walking on eggshells” and how people were annoyed at this, and it made me think a little. I always try my best to be a respectful and decent person, but when the matter is trans people I do get a bit nervous (I’m an introvert, by the way. I’m already a bit nervous by default). How can I be sure that I’m not offending someone while also not looking so worried about it?
Don’t be a jerk and just treat us as you would treat any other woman. It’s not hard, if it feels hard maybe you might not be as nice of a person as you think you are.
Instead of being sure you don’t offend someone, just make sure you didn’t mean to offend someone. If someone does get offended and can’t gracefully accept an apology, they weren’t going to make a good friend anyway.
Sorry I’m in a bad mood today. You can’t make sure not to insult/assault somebody, because even when you act in best faith, somebody can come along, interpret your actions totally different, and accuse you of something.
We need to care less about all of the bullshit that other people allege us with and listen more to what we think is right ourselves.
sorry for the rant. just had a bad day.
As long as you’re making an effort, that’s really what matters. Nobody’s going to be offended by a small mistake or slip-up. Just apologize and move on.
Trans people are people after all, and all they want is to be treated as such. They don’t want preferential treatment, just to be treated like everyone else.
If you’re an introvert, then you probably don’t want to attract attention to yourself in most cases. Same thing here.
Just dont be an a jerk and listen to others, most people will be respectful when you make a mistake if you’re clearly not doing it on purpose
