to preface: as much as the title sounds like a critique, it’s not. it’s just a realization i had while thinking about baldur’s gate 3, and it’s good they provided the options they did, for me to have this realization in the first place

i’m a transgender man, and i’ve been on hrt for several years, i haven’t had bottom surgery, and i’m intimately familiar with the effects testosterone has on a vulva. i’ve also been in trans femme circles long enough to know how estrogen affects a penis (if you are unfamiliar, you can read about each at https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en/second-puberty-masc#genital-changes and https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en/second-puberty-fem#genital-changes)

and it’s really weird to realize that most people cannot visualize what i have going on in my pants. a cis woman’s vulva is fundamentally not accurate (which is basically what’s presented as your option). for me, obviously; for some trans masc people, it is accurate

i don’t know how trans femme people feel, but i could see the argument for them going either way. i’d like to hear what you think, if you feel represented by feminine body shapes with a penis selected as your genitals

and also, it would be interesting to see bottom surgery options represented. even if that’s just the same models but with the “is this from surgery” option ticked or something

finally. my concluding thoughts are that i’d really like to see how big a half-orc’s tdick gets (presuming that half-orcs are subject to the same sex hormones humans are and/or that they can substitute their hormones similarly. i mean that’s it’s own can of worms there)

i know i’m not ending off on any kind of a question but i wanted to share my feelings about this with people and hear how this made others feel, as well

25 points

I guess I just don’t understand why my video game character needs genitals. Maybe I’m just out of touch but it seems so pointless to me.

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Same reason you pick hair or makeup or face structure or voice. You can make your character represent a person you want represented.

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I guess the difference for me is that I’m not running around with my genitals exposed. Maybe for my barbarian but otherwise it’s pointless to me. I’m all for inclusion though and not trying to imply I’m upset. I 100% agree with OP that if they are going to do it they should try to be as inclusive as possible. I just saw it during creation and thought, weird, why do I need to customize my genitals.

I should also add that I feel the same way about graphic sex scenes in my video games. I’m not a big fan. I enjoy pornography I just don’t want it on my video games.

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I agree. Not to sound too puritan but I think it would be okay if games were just like “bulge” or “no bulge” and left it at that.

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Yeah I get ya. It’s a part of your body though and I get why devs want people to feel like they have the agency to choose (even if it’s imperfect)

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Yeah, same goes for me. For those that haven’t played, BG3 had an option to turn off nudity altogether. It really doesn’t come into play with the exception of romance scenes (which are optional) And a few cut scenes where characters are nude but not sexy nude. All that being said, sex in video games is almost always awkward and choosing my genitals was not expected when I ticked the option for nudity.

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On the other hand, my body, nudity, and sex and sexuality is a natural part of my life. I don’t see why it “shouldn’t” be included.

But I also don’t put too much weight on sex, so to say. It’s a part of life to me. It’s not any more special than something like eating. Being sex-positive and casual about sex is just how it goes, and so it’s nice to see that in a game as well. It just feels natural, and so more immersive.

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lmao, ironically your comment reminded me that there are nulloplasties as well, which would be a cool option to see represented, as well as various intersex options…

ahem more to your point, though. while they currently have a very limited effect on gameplay, it doesn’t mean that they will never have an effect on gameplay. for example, one small thing that the devs of bg3 could do is have your bedmates remark on your genitals to you (i am being VERY presumptuous here that they don’t, but i would be VERY surprised if i was wrong). anywhere from remarks about it not being what they expected, to them saying they had a good time anyways, etc

it doesn’t necessarily need to be gratuitous because interactions with genitals aren’t necessarily gratuitous. maybe you learn another party member had the same surgery as you or something, y’know. or you run into the surgeon who did your bottom surgery on your quest

there’s a lot more we could be doing, than we currently are

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So, I haven’t played BG3, but considering that it’s a fantasy setting, I am surprised that it seems to be same as irl for trans stuff. Compared to the pathfinder universe which had since the 1st edition magical hrt potions and salves which work way better than irl as well as straight up insta-transition magic items in 2e, DnD seems kinda boring.

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Oh, random based Pathfinder take! I love seeing it get love over DnD because yes, it’s so much more inclusive and interesting. From a lore perspective and a mechanic perspective.

That’s not even getting into the issues with WotC as a company.

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it doesn’t touch on transition or related things, afaik, aside from allowing you to freely select both your appearance and your genitals (afaik). so it’s hard to say what it has or doesn’t have available

that said, i feel like… you lose something with “perfect” transition. for example, in a world where you could remove breast tissue without scarring, i might still have a double mastectomy, because my transness is part of who i am. obviously, there are people who would love to have that, and that’s great for them and they’re not less trans for it. but i think there’s a beauty in “imperfect” transition

i feel odd about feeling this way, though. almost certainly, medicine and technology will progress to the point where trans people will be indistinguishable from cis people. and i’m sure, at that point, these ideas will be considered backwards or coping or whatever…

anyways. i guess this is a long winded way to say, pathfinder/2e may have the nicer and more expedient options, but they’re also maybe not as interesting

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Great point! That is why it is important to keep an open mind. It may seem pointless to me but it may be very important to others.

So far no one wants to have sex with me in BG3. I thought Gale did for a bit but I must have pissed him off at some point. Maybe they did put some indication in the game that we will see later.

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my condolences, gale is my boy and i’m going to be heartbroken if he realizes / remembers he’s extremely heterosexual partway through LOL

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There are good reasons for gender representation. That being said, often, like in CP2077, it’s to stir controversy for marketing.

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You wouldn’t say that if it was you not being represented.

There’s sex scenes in the game. I want a character to look like me. It’s only controversial to uptight folk.

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You wouldn’t say that if it was you not being represented.

I’m all about representation and I don’t think that it was an incorrect choice to have in the character creation, on its face. However, you don’t ever see your character’s genitals after creation, even in the sex scenes, from my recollection.

It’s only controversial to uptight folk.

That is what I think was the point and what I meant. Uptight folk are loud about being offended by “naughty” things. Adding explicit content in the character creation that has no material effect elsewhere is fairly low-effort and does have a positive effect for some. But, it outages the most annoyingly vocal group who shriek “think of the children”. So, more people heard about the game due to the few publicity.

Can’t really fault them as they did something positive for representation but, if it had a material impact on gameplay or story, it would be much better.

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i did not know any of this, thanks for sharing

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Same. It’s super interesting and I wasn’t fully aware of it either.

I knew some things changed, but I didn’t realize how exactly or the extent of it.

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If I understand you correctly, what you’re suggesting would require programming in an entire system for trans bodies, a bunch more 3d models to make and to integrate into that system, as well as many small changes all over the rest of the game to make it all work.

Don’t get me wrong, I think that would be amazing and I too would like to see it, I don’t think it’s gonna be worth the investment for AAA games made for profit. Hell, I haven’t seen a system like that in explicitly adult games, and games like that would actually use that system.

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i like the way you think. i was just thinking they could throw in a “androgenized vulva” and “estrogenized penis” models and call it a day. their options (in bg3) hardly represent the spectrum of possibilities even for cis people, and a couple models aren’t that much investment

BUT, what you suggested is much better. and i bet it could leverage existing technology we already have for resizing / interpolating facial features (with some adaptation). it’s definitely tech companies are investing in already

no, i think the cost actually isn’t that high, but i think the stigma (genitals lol) and lack of awareness are the bigger hurdles around it

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Well if we’re talking about something more than just more options in a selector, then it can be as complicated as dev wants it to be. A separate 3d model or some adjustments to an existing one if you select a trans option in character creator would not be that hard. But it’s still time and effort of programmers and modellers and we know how much studios like to overwork and underpay them. I guess my point wasn’t that it’s too hard, but rather that it’s too hard to be deemed important by the money people.

Personally I think there can be actually artistic value in this. Character customisation can be a way to worldbuild before the game even started. BG3 is fantasy, so maybe there is magic or rituals used by trans people to get the bodies they want. Maybe the rituals leave a mark, so a trans fem would have scars from that ritual. What if some trans people got there by making deals with fey so a trans masc might have a chest they traded from a fey prince.

Or imagine if cyberpunk2077 was actually good and had done something with this. Transhumanism is a big thing in cyberpunk genre, and there is already borgware in the ttrpg, why not make nsfw borgware? If I can replace all my limbs with katanas I can make THAT katana cybernetic too.

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i agree the incentive would need to be there, but given existing character creation technology, i don’t think the bar is as high as you think it would be. at least as far as strictly implementation is concerned

that said, you have big ideas and i like them and i hope you continue sharing them

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They provided multiple vulvas and multiple penises to choose from already. Would it cost more to model an additional few? Yes. But it wouldn’t require an entirely new system or significant programming. You could add them to the list of selectable options.

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I originally thought it was about deeper levels of customization that more realistiaclly portrayed trans bodies, which would be imo complicated. But you are absolutely right that just another variant of already existing selection would be reletively trivial.

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The other day one of the few people I know who has a similar fairly unique genital configuration as me made an offhand remark about representation in this game and how they realized how none of the choices fit them. I honestly never considered modeling a character after myself, but realized that’s true for me as well. Ultimately I don’t particularly care, but it would be cool and extremely surprising if it happened.

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like how much variety in body shapes does the game have? like coming from a transfem perspective i find the all too common “coventionally attractive cis woman” bodytype with penis stapled on to be pretty boring. otherwise i think it seems neat ^_^

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They have a pretty good selection considering, including both strong and not-strong varients of many races for both masc and femme bodies. They however have no finer customization of your body shape; i.e. there’s no sliders in the way of hips/waist/head/chest size, level of muscularity, etc, so you’re just selecting a preset body shape to “paint” onto.

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