Porn is so same-y. I gotta say it’s gotten pretty boring for me over the last decade (I’m ~40). I think that content involving some setup/plot is more interesting to me now, but most porn content just throws body parts in your face.

Any suggestions for material that is a little more… I don’t know… Motivated? Intellectually interesting? Funny? Etc?

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I don’t know if this is what you’re looking for but i feel the same way and found myself reading a lot on Literotica. I use MS Edge and have it read the stories aloud since I don’t like sitting and reading.

I’m a 43 yo bi guy and I’ve delved into all sorts of genres. Even though I don’t masturbate to it immediately, it does make the experience better later in with my usual porn.

Also, it’s the only way I get to feel a lot of those giddy, sexy, excited feelings I got when I was a younger lad.

PS. You can install Edge on Android.

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Anything that’s a slower burn tends to be a more satisfying experience in my opinion. Mass market porn is just there when you want to get off quickly, but it’s not a good experience.

Erotica, games, eRP, and actual human chat partners are all massively more satisfying when the time comes. The older I get the stronger that sentiment gets.

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Agreed. I guess a lot of that comes from fetish type content aimed at specific scenarios people find interesting. The problem is that apart from more popular ones (like feet etc), the group size for each niche is going to be pretty small so it’s hard to find content tailored to very specific niches. Generally there are quite a few different communities here but often they are dead or have only one person posting (group size issue again). This is fine if you know your preferences and you know where to go to find content related to them, but it’s a problem when you want to browse local to find your niches.

Meanwhile, I guess the most popular content is probably ‘body parts in face’ or something, or at least it’s the lowest effort way to get clicks which is probably why it’s the most prevalent content. A lot of that stuff is also marketing for onlyfans. I dunno, maybe try looking around the web more haphazardly and see what you find?

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If you haven’t tried it, audio porn. Turn off the lights and the screen, put in some earbuds and close your eyes. They’re often slower burn and at least for me is usually a much better experience than video.

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I would suggest checking Bellesa Studio content. It is still regular porn but just a bit different view. Their tagline is “porn by women” and obviously women are better in this job too.

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Gay Furry porn

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