3 points

A movie night. Like go to Walmart, find a couple good dvds or whatever that the family will like, buy some popcorn and if you can find it for not too much, one of those popcorn buckets. If you can find a couple of those movie theater size candies then toss them in too.

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It’s a bit late, but pay attention anytime says they “want x” throughout the year. Literally take a note of it on your phone, and buy it for them.

I tend to only buy 2-3 presents a year, but they’re always bangers, because they’re always something someone got excited over before, them promptly forgot existed… until I had it to them!

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This is the way, but also be vigilant - if they really wanted the thing, they might’ve gotten it themselves. If possible, double check this.

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We usually do:

something to wear
something they need
something to read
something they want
something to eat

That said, we also try to make note of what someone wants when they mention it.

My mom is fairly simple, she either wants time with the family and grandkids or pictures. We usually do a yearly photo album or calendar, she loves those.

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I just want to add that if your budget is so low that the item is not going to last, just don’t.

Besides things that are fragile because they’re fancy, get something good or skip it and do a gift card or something else entirely.

Also, if you do have budget to go around, focus on experiences over items.

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What is their hobby, buy something that helps with hobby

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The problem is, they know a lot more about their hobby than you do, and probably have strong opinions about things about it that you would have no idea about. So it’s a good way to end up getting them something they don’t really want.

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Definitely this. I’ve been on the receiving end of this and it’s awkward especially if they want to see you using it. Even if they don’t you’ll feel guilty for wanting to get rid if the clutter that you won’t be using anyway.

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For most things hobby related, it’s best to directly ask what they’d like for Christmas that helps with their hobby. If they always talk about buying from one particular store or supplier, a gift card to there would be good

Edited for better words good

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