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Wander (They/Them)

wander@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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They/them | 20 | Disabled | Ask me about puppets, I love puppetry and animation

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Fair point, ty that is what is hard is hrt tends to be super specific per person, and then pcos is similar so was worried , but just finding good provider then sounds important

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Oh wow thank you! This helps knowing then!

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I think for sure my parents comes from some part of their strongly Christian upbringing or something like that. Where queer people are fine, but then also imagining also having your kid be queer is too much? Either way still doesn’t make sense and has hurt my relationship significantly with them. Especially considering I plan on moving in with my girlfriend at some point

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They were “supportive” but when it comes to actual support they avoid it. When I mentioned ace and aro they dismissed it saying I’ll grow out of it. Been told my whole life we will love you whoever you love and whoever you are. I’ve had two relationships in secret :/ when I came out as non-binary it was forced and wasn’t meant to happen. Don’t remember what but they misgender me because “it’s too hard” to switch between they/them at the house and she/her with extended family -_- as if I don’t do that constantly. That and actively making fun of my name. They constantly talk about how queer rights matter but won’t actually support their queer kid. I’m so ready to move out. It’s bizarre I don’t get it

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Love the flexibility tbh. If I want to switch manufacturers my OS is the same Also much cheaper + I just love the app selection and the ability to put my own apps on here.

iOS is too restrictive for me and too expensive tbh. The ability to switch default apps is amazing. That said this is just for me tbh

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Caveot being the loading screens and loading mini games are very non-sensical. When will the devs patch this smh

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Adding on I think something else is going on since I cannot see my own posts on my profile, but I can see my comments fine. I’ve tried resetting the languages and saving the settings to English and Undetermined, but still can’t see it. If I log out or go to the link directly I can see it fine

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This is stupid lol but I hope someone makes a circlejerk. Not a Denver person (still in CO) but I enjoy reading here, + you all tend to post state news more often seriously is helpful

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Its so frustrating finding out about a symptom I’m struggling with, and I try to look it up and its all aimed at kids. Even if its all targeted at kids, those kids will grow up and become adults, and still have the same issues and I don’t understand why.

I think you’re right with the whole grow out of it thing. It fundamentally won’t for any of my ND stuff, I will just get better over time at managing, but its hard to do that when there’s no support. It’s like the phrase “stop making autism your whole personality”, no I cannot do that because fundamentally it affects everything.

TLDR: I agree and I hate how resources are aimed at NTs despite the fact that we are autonomous adults, and even then kids need to feel like you understand and aren’t just talking at them.

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I think I might be wrong, but I personally say it blah ha. But I don’t think this is how its meant to be said lol, like you said blo-hi is the one that I think? maybe is correct

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