I was raised by evangelicals myself, and also went through a nu atheist phase when I was 14.
You’re a bigot and you need to grow up and put that away.
There are nonreligious homophobes and misogynists and racists and trans phones. There are religious people who aren’t bigots at all.
Clearly the religion is an excuse for the bigotry and not the ultimate source of it, or neither of those would be true.
Saying that Judaism inherently inclines one to the kinds of genocidal crimes Israel is committing makes you a fucking antisemite and is clearly disproven by the number of religious Jews who have been vocally opposed to the genocide and to Zionism generally.
You don’t get to “I’m oppressed too” your way out of being called out for bigotry.