Real talk homies. How desperate would you as a straight man have to be to use a glory hole, knowing probably a man would be doing the sucking?
He could have been more sensitive but there is nothing homophobic about just being straight. He didn’t make any judgements about gay people, or any other disenfranchised group. His judgement/curiosity is towards straight males.
If you are bi curious and want to go to a glory hole and get excited about not knowing who is doing the service then guess what? You’re a beautiful person but you aren’t straight. So his question had nothing to do with you.
His question was for someone who has the same sexuality as him. It seems like he feels a specific way about something that comes from his sexuality and is wondering what the circumstances would be to make someone else that feels just like him about it to actually go through with it.
While it’s not directly referring to the joke, I don’t think the question implies he missed it. Just a question that popped up because of the topic in said joke
Why the hell is it gay to have a guy suck your dick? It’s only gay if you’re aroused by the thought of men. At a glory hole, you can still imagine it’s a girl and the only gay one is the dude blowing you.
Quick question, that is only for my curiosity and doesn’t come from any negative judgement, are you a straight male?
If you are then good on ya, I should feel silly for being surprised by this take because everyone is different.
But if you aren’t; I would say that as a straight male, the thought of potentially getting my dick sucked by a guy but not knowing it was a guy, gives me the same exact feeling as if I did know. It’s not disgust for another person, it’s just a voiceless feeling that roughly translates to “definitely no”, I’m sure someone else could describe it better, I’m no wordsmith, but that’s essentially why we don’t want to do that.
That being said, if you don’t want to involve involuntary aversions, only some people have and nobody really talks about without being homophobic, because maybe you haven’t experienced what I’m talking about. I will say getting your dick sucked by a guy is gay in the most literal sense. Maybe you aren’t gay, that’s on you to figure out, but you did do a gay thing, no "if"s "and"s or "butt"s about it and there is nothing wrong with that.
Probably not the best subr… SubLemmy(?) to ask this question. It’s important right now to be sensitive for our disenfranchised homies.
Without looking at your previous posts I’m giving the benefit of the doubt that you didn’t mean anything negative by it. So hear me when I tell you that saying things that could even just “possibly” be misinterpreted as something negative will absolutely be taken personally. The past hundred+ years have been completely fucking horrendous for gay people, so until we go back to freely fucking and sucking anyone without judgement, the people who are used to being oppressed for said fucking and sucking are going to be a little sensitive when you say something that might be misinterpreted into you thinking they should be oppressed.
