Sounds like you want to have your cake and eat it too but 🤷
Find someone you like to fuck and you don’t have to worry about dumb shit like this.
lol
if “don’t be selfish, find someone you love to fuck” is “yukking a yum” y’all are in way too fucking deep.
get your head out of your ass.
I’m in a 20+ year monogamous relationship. I’m saying keep your head out of your ass and acknowledge that people have sexual preferences that differ from your conservative-ass worldview