230 points

How the hell do you manage to get banned from dating apps?

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There might be a link between the bans from dating apps and the “not been in a long-term relationship”…

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80 points

Add another link to posting on 4chan. I’m sure they are just a SWELL.

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I feel like everything except their age can be traced back to no education.

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What is “a SWELL”?

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There are plenty of otherwise normal, functional people on that website.

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71 points

Usually being verbally abusive toward “females”

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8 points

Why female is “in quotes”?

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It’s a derogatory when used as a noun.

Previous poster put it in quotes to show that OP probably used it that way.

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Who says “females” in that context? Usually a very specific subset of people who have “never been in a relationship” and make it other people’s problem. Like, regular person would just say “women”, hence OP quoting

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22 points

Ferengi

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Incels referring to women as females and likely a real chauvinistic attitude

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“Hello bambinos”

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My wife’s best friend has been banned a couple times and is waiting to appeal her tinder ban again.

Although often justifiable based on the ways these guys have acted/spoke to her, it’s usually because she’s super ruthless in her response. A guy got mad she wasn’t interested in just being a booth call after she said she’s there for dates too, said she was after a free meal (paying hadn’t come up yet, and she always pays for herself unless a guy insists) and so she tore into him. And she’s brutal. Another had ghosted her after rescheduling on the date twice and saying stuff came up and that he’s busy (days after the fact, no check in or nothing) and so she told him that’s some horse shit and that he’s a little bitch that needs to get his life in order if he’s gonna stand somebody up twice after begging for a second chance.

She definitely could be nicer sometimes, but from what I’ve read from her it’s no different than how I see a lot of dudes talk on there, I think those guys just got their feelings hurt more than standard tinder girls do.

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So someone who can’t control their temper got banned. The system works.

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I don’t see where the temper is lost there. I can say your reading comprehension is non-existant at best, or you simply can’t read at worst; none of that would be uncontrolled temper. It is very much pointing things out without sugarcoating.

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I can see why she’s single LMAO

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I used to go to school with a lady that was perma banned from Tinder last year. My guess is she replied to creepy/perverted messages with enough hostility that they yeeted her straight off the platform.

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In all honesty I’ve gotten banned from a couple. Turns out they don’t usually take account security super seriously. Stop using it for a bit, and suddenly it’s sending out obvious scam bait messages lol

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3 points

Mental mal-adjustment

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You can also get banned from dating apps for not using them the way the app wants you to. For example not messaging people back or not swiping right enough on tinder.

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Source?

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M’lady

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I’ve literally been asking that question. A lot of people never get to know why they’re banned.

Match Group owns the biggest ones, and sometimes people seem to get banned from all of them at once.

But Google Play Store also disallows installing dating apps for some people. Very unclear why, because there’s no official word on them doing it.

Maybe it’s for legitimate reasons, but given these companies dominance, I find it disconcerning.

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They shadowban you if you’re ugly.

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106 points

oh no, the consequences of my inaction

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Being banned from dating apps is probably consequences for their actions.

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74 points

Lack of license and being an alcoholic is probably consequences as well.

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13 points

Not having a driver’s license could be either.

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82 points

This dude reads like a sociopath. The system works.

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Seriously. You need to really try to get banned from a dating app, let alone apps plural.

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I’m sure there are countless social or personal reasons for it, but kids having kids without being taught responsibility or how life works means you get a lot of unfortunate children growing up who were never taught about making plans and goals in life, nor are they provided resources to be successful past childhood when you’re just expected to exist and nobody gives a flying fuck about you.

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What did I ever do to you?

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Exist, jerk face

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5 points

turns to dust

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Banned from dating apps?

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probably said the N word too many times

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I uploaded a single photo that showed my clothed body and my smile, but not my nose/eyes. DONE BLOCKED ZZZ

I told a lady I was not interested in a non attacking way (mentioning I was not over my ex yet and needed some more time) DONE BLOCKED ZZZ

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