my new years resolution is to get gayer. i’m pretty satisfied with the level of trans i’m on, though i might get my gender legally changed. i do want to update my wardrobe a bit (my fashion sense has evolved since i first really did that post coming out) but money is very expensive
what are all of you hoping for this year?
Happy nude year
I think I’ll be coming out fully at some point this year. Being closeted is far too distressing these days, so, even though I dread the process of coming out, I think it’s going to be necessary in the very near future.
I should be getting onto the top surgery waitlist in a week or two, which probably means I’ll be on it for most of 2024 (and some or potentially all of 2025, too).
Potentially I’ll also be legally changing my name and gender too, we’ll see.
None of these things will be fun, but hopefully life afterwards will be more livable.
Tbh I wanna come out at least to quite a few people. By the end of the year I’ll honestly have to be out because I’m starting to grow boobs haha. I also know I’m gonna have to boymode basically in Feb and April, but af r er that I kinda wanna never do that ever again. I got so fucked up mentally by doing that for 9 days Over Christmas, I never wanna do it again.
Also seriously considering taking some stress/mental health leave from my job. Like 2-3 months. But if I can’t get it at least partially paid then it’s dead in the water.
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i want to work on my garden
leaf and rootpilled
HOPEFULLY: sunflowers, squash, beans, garlic, corn, broccoli, dill, lettuce, carrots, red peppers, potatoes, random native groundcover seed mix
The sunflowers are for the pretties and the birds, the broccoli is for the butterflies. I accidentally let them go to bloom but i noticed the butterflies were absolutely loving them, so i let most of the rest go to bloom and plan to plant more.
I need to do some research on plants for butterflies this year, but i got time. I also want to start some microgreens inside, i guess it’s real easy. Basically just re-use a tofu container (or something like that), fill with soil, cover with seed and cover with foil and set in the sun, after a few days you have fresh greens to harvest :3
my ex planted the garden last year, but we broke up pretty early. So i tended it and harvested it after, and this will be my first year starting from scratch.
I also need to get rid of the plants i accidentally killed by overwatering inside and plant new stuff in their pots. But i’m waiting for more money to get soil and seeds before doing that.
damn, sorry for the wall of text. Gardening is cool
Learn more languages, find people that I can bear to be around, get a better job, move city. Get medical treatment by any means necessary
