Apparently these days, the most popular dream job among children is influencer. I’ve seen articles about it, and both the articles and the comments are invariably full of judgy statements about how Kids These DaysTM are such narcissists/their brains are being rotted by social media/they don’t want to do anything valuable with their lives.
But like. I think the kids are onto something, tbh. The thing is, working a 9-5 (or 8-5, as the average job is nowadays) job is a pretty shit deal. You have no say in your work environment and have to do whatever you’re told. The hours make a medieval peasant’s workload look light, and that’s not even counting the commute you’ll likely have to make. What little free time you have left over is spent recovering, so you don’t have time to do anything fun. And you get to do this for the rest of your life.
At least if you’re an influencer, you set your own hours and may wind up working much less than 40 hours a week. You get to work from home, and there’s a small chance you’ll hit it big and get rich. There’s zero chance of that at your standard office job. If you can swing it, it’s not a bad deal at all.
And I don’t think there’s anything morally wrong with being an influencer. Are some of them shitty? Sure. But that’s true of any job. You could argue that being an influencer contributes nothing to society, but really, how many jobs do contribute anything worthwhile to the world? Is it really more respectable to type numbers into spreadsheets all day just to make your boss richer? Or to write up reports no one reads? At least influencers entertain people.
TL;DR: The kids know the grind is bullshit, and they see becoming an influencer as a way to escape that.
If I may summarize what I think I’m hearing from you:
This is the current version of “Going to Hollywood” / “Hitting it big” so you can make some money and set your own rules.
And, since these are people, some of them will be very cool individuals and some will be absolute trash and there will be a number who are in-between those extremes.
If so then I can’t really argue with you. Who wants to work at the Fedex Copy Center and try to make it that way?
People wishing to land into a large sum of money that would free them from the obligation to have to work to survive is enough proof that lot of people don’t really grow up wanting to do mundane 9-5 tasks. Its just that for some, those childhood dreams never managed to actually become feasible reality and now they got to do what they have to in order to survive.
Kids have always had wild career dreams, it’s not new it’s just a different medium. It’s fine. I’m not sure it’s a conscious decision to escape the grind though. I grew up with kids who wanted to be movie stars or athletes. Why? Because they idolised movie stars and athletes and want to be like them. It’s what they’re exposed to the most. Now kids are exposed to influencers the most, so they wanna be one too.
I wanted to be a train driver 🚂
That’s exactly what my first thought was. How many kids did you know growing up who practiced singing into their hairbrush, convinced they would be rock stars?
This is actually a really good point that I hadn’t considered! My career dream as a kid was zoologist (which never quite panned out for me). My only concern with kids that want to be influencers is if they’re looking for love and attention they aren’t getting at home, and that’s entirely out of concern for their mental and emotional health. I don’t really think it’s bad for kids to want to be influencers though, as long as they understand what they’re getting into if they start putting serious effort into creating a career out of it.
When I was a kid I used to play at being a radio DJ, record myself on a tape recorder and force my parents to be interviewed. Playing at being a YouTuber or whatever doesn’t really seem any different to that, to me.
I feel that depending on what kind of content creation it is, some of the people balking at those kids who want to be influencers don’t realize that it is still a lot of work. This is being a freelance entertainer, you still need to learn strategies. I’m preparing to start VTubing (independently) at 20 as a side hustle, and there is an astounding amount of preparation to do it well. Also, these content creator lifestyles can also be appealing for disabled/chronically ill people like myself. A good community will wish you well, understand, and not ask you for a doctor’s note if you need time off frequently; a manager at a corporate job, not so much. Disabled or not, everyone deserves flexibility, and being an influence can support that well.
