150 points

I deleted FB 15 years ago and haven’t missed it once.

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74 points

I only miss it because Facebook Marketplace has killed Craigslist and I have some crap I need to sell

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I gave up selling on marketplace, and donate everything. People messaging you for months asking questions or wanting a refund after they broke it. I’m not your tech support, and no warranty claims. Have heard this is a regional issue and also depends on the category. I will never sell another car on marketplace. Craigslist is great for the anonymity.

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10 points

Can’t even give shit away on Facebook’s buy nothing groups cause people fucking ghost you after saying they’ll take it

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1 point

iS tHiS sTiLl aVAILaBlE.

Marketplace when I was moving saved me many trips because people will come pick up any old thing, but it was the pits of hell to deal with. Some lady ghosted me picking up some doors, so I moved on to the next person, and she messaged me back three weeks later saying she was interested again, and was mad as blazes I hadn’t held onto them.

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8 points

It’s also real annoying when trying to look up business hours or a restaurant menu only to find all their links are to Facebook.

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8 points

Marketplace is much worse than Craigslist, I don’t get it.

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2 points

Craigslist was always on the fringes, before Facebook marketplace came in there were a bunch of separate and disconnected online marketplaces. Facebook marketplace had the advantage of already having a massive user base (larger than any of the existing online marketplaces), causing it to become the largest one right out the gate, which then of course makes it the most attractive option for sellers since they will reach more people.

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3 points

Fortunately, my area has a popular classifieds at a local newspaper website, so I’ve never even looked at Facebook marketplace.

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20 points

I (maybe, kinda) miss what Facebook was like in, er, 2008-ish. But then again I was also 25 so maybe I just miss what life was like back then.

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9 points

Same. I got on it in 2006 and it was great up until about 2010, 2013-2014 was when the shit started to hit the fan.

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9 points

2013-2014 was when the timeline shifted from being a chronological timeline to a feed. The algo took over and it went to shit.

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2 points

That sounds roughly about when I bailed on it.

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12 points

Me too and me either.

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2 points

I stopped actively using it in about 2015 and every time I happen to go on it (like once every 3 years because, like a lot of people, it’s how I communicate with family members I don’t see often) it’s like uncovering and diving into a cesspool.

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1 point

No, you didn’t, it is still there! Facebook.com

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110 points

Not being stuck inside of an echo chamber really does wonders for the brain. And yes, I know the irony of saying this on Lemmy, but it’s true.

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44 points

Echo chambers are a lot easier to recognize and ignore when they aren’t filled with your friends and family.

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Lemmy isn’t really an echo chamber. It’s like saying going over to a friends place is an echo chamber because you and your friend get along. There’s nothing wrong with hanging out with people who share your values and beliefs.

The problem with social media are their algorithms. They aren’t designed to connect you with like-minded people, but to keep you engaged. The content that keeps people engaged tends to be terrible content.

The recent “a man or a bear” trend is a perfect example. Algorithms love divisive content like that because it drives engagement, but it also leads to people getting really upset over nothing. Lemmy doesn’t have any algorithms driving engagement so it doesn’t have that problem.

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11 points

Lemmy’s a lot better than Reddit for not being an echo chamber because the communities are less interest specific, and most of us are here because we’re the type to seek out a better discussion rather than stick with status quo.

But as it gets bigger and the communities become more niché it will become a bigger issue.

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6 points

I strongly disagree.

I don’t think lemmy is necessarily an echochamber per se, rather its just a place where misinformation exists and opinions are manipulated.

Lemmy does use algorithms to show you the most engaging content, and there are absolutely bots and bad actors manipulating which content is prioritised.

The genocide Joe / vote abstinence thing was a very clear example.

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4 points

… That’s not an echo chamber though. That’s propaganda and vote manipulation mostly by literal state actors and brainwashed rubes.

An echo chamber is when people literally self segregate enough to the point that they no longer consume almost any media that doesn’t fit their belief. Its exacerbated by large corporations who profit from ad revenue driven through user engagement.

Lemmy is not an echo chamber no more than the literal radio.

Reddit is not an echo chamber.

You can make these an echo chamber through varying degrees of ease. But places like Facebook, YouTube, and Twitter have been proven to drive you into one by exploiting ragebait for clicks.

You can say they’re both fruit, sure. But one is like eating cantaloupe and the other like eating bananas laced with speed.

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1 point

Lemmy is definitely an echo chamber, but I agree that it’s not necessarily a bad thing as long as we recognize it for what it is. There are a large number of people out there that have very different opinions than the majority of users on this platform, we need to keep things respectful even in our disagreements with them instead of tearing them down for their opinions.

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2 points

Have you tried Linux, communism, and being gay?

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4 points

yes, yes, and yes.

and i no longer like any of those things.

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Damn, speedrunning the Lemmy topics! I only do 2/3 of them, otherwise we’d probably already be married!

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69 points

I wish I could get my parents to unplug from Fox for a while

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58 points

Parental controls on the cable/satellite box are a two-way street, IMO. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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8 points

Parent control

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19 points

Block Fox and the other right wing news stations, but also a couple liberal news stations like NBC. When they call you for tech support, tell them it’s a weird issue happening with cable lately

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9 points

My dad would figure it out pretty quick, he’s no ludite

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64 points

Platforms like Facebook have an incredible hold on some people. I remember a few years ago when the “Momo” hoax happened, an older coworker arrived at the office and started warning us about the danger of “Momo” they’d seen on Facebook. I’d already heard about the hoax (and was aware of the original creepyasta origins), and brought up a few news articles explaining it, including an official statement from the police. Everyone seemed satisfied by the truth, except for the Facebook addict. They just gave me a blank stare, and a few hours later I heard them telling another group of colleagues to beware of “Momo” getting to their children.

I have family members and longstanding family friends who have succumbed to this. Interestingly almost all of them were decrying the internet as something that couldn’t be trusted before the age of social media.

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8 points

Damn Momo is like 3 years old now? Lol. My kids were coming home with that shit they knew it was bullshit before my ex lol.

I miss Oprah and her rainbow parties like sheeit I want me some blowjob parties!

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8 points

2018 according to Wikipedia, so 6 years ago!

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3 points

Fuck I was still ib highschool then, and I still on occasion become convinced that I need to be getting ready for school at random when waking up.

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6 points

You get a BJ! You get a BJ! EVERYONE GETS A BJ!

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3 years? It feels like 6-7 years. Momo was in 2021?

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53 points

Deleting it for 3 years also improves mental health and keeps toxic family members out of your business. I wish I’d learned that sooner.

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3 points

Just never accept the friend requests by family members, it isn’t worth it.

Even aside from politics, the only thing they do is comment dumb annoying gifs on your posts.

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I think I’m closer to 10 years, but I do remember needing to recreate one for a few weeks while I worked with a few Facebook employees on a project.

Anyway, I don’t even know what Facebook looks like these days. My contacts occasionally mention it, but nothing important seems to happen there.

Just delete your account. It’s not a big deal, it’s just toxic people showing off for other toxic people.

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