So my mom has been saying for awhile how she wished she could play Hogwarts legacy, and my older sister just replaced her gaming PC. So my sister sent her old pc to my mom. Nothing crazy, but meets minimum system requirements! My mom is now kind of speed running learning about gaming and it’s been amusing. I just think these are adorable.

  1. She complained that she couldn’t find the game for sale for PC anywhere, she could only find it for XBOX and PS. She was looking on amazon, and I had to point her towards steam, and help her setup an account for steam.

  2. She happened to purchase it while it was on sale and she was super confused why it was randomly on sale! Had to explain how steam works. She’s disabled and the $60 was the extent of her fun money for the month, so getting it on sale was a huge deal to her.

  3. Complaining at how long it took to download the game off wifi when she was ready to play RIGHT NOW. She kept asking if we could use an Ethernet cable to make it go faster, but her PC was like 40 feet from the nearest jack and we didn’t have a long enough ethernet cable (No I wasn’t driving home to my house to look for one, and no I wasn’t buying her one. Love you momma! You gotta wait!)

  4. She realized she hates mouse and keyboard, so used the money she saved from the sale to buy a little controller from walmart.

  5. She talked about how much she likes that because she’s on “story mode” she can skip puzzles/challenges she thinks are stupid. Considering there are games I never beat as a kid because of a specific mini game/challenge I couldn’t beat, I resonated with that. Back when we were kids if there was a quick time event you couldn’t beat, we quit the game!

  6. A few weeks later she talked about how she was super happy to finally find a youtuber that would give walk through/tips/advice on how to do things in a not annoying way. The one she likes are basically “Here is a 30 second clip of doing this specific thing in this room”. She is not a fan of 30 minute lets plays with intros/outros.

  7. Complaining about long load times between rooms, and quests that make her go through multiple loading zones. No comment, she’s just right to complain.

All her revelations were super relatable and I just thought it was cute that at an older age she went through modern gaming transition in a few weeks, and hit on emotions we all basically hit.

4 points

Get her a tplink ethernet powerline pass through adapter.

It uses the house copper wiring to connect two ethernet ports you can getbpretty decent speeds

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Powerline is prone to interference and speed reduction

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I use one myself and I find it a faster and more stable connection than WiFi.

That being said I’m in the UK, I’m not sure if different building specs per country would affect it.

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Then you must have bad WiFi or be far enough away from the router that it makes a difference

Better to have dedicated ethernet wiring

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Probably would just get a long ethernet cable and hide it properly if it becomes relevant. But I doubt she’ll ever play a game that relies heavily on internet, so she’ll just need to deal with her slow download speeds!

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My dad got into gaming recently. It’s cute until they start asking for help doing things they don’t have the hand dexterity to do themselves lol

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Unless he is really up there in age or has the palsy or whatever, he IS going to get better at it on his own eventually. I watch a streamer in his 80s who absolutely destroys on first person shooters and in Lord of the Rings MMO. But all he did was bia$tch when he first started streaming CS Go because he just didnt have the coordination. Now he uses CSGo was a palette cleanser, a cool down, if you will.

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Maybe if they’d played more splitscreen with us as kids they’d still have it

Git gud grandpas

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Well it’s pretty funny at least when he’s struggling on something and the I come in and do it in 2 seconds

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Sounds like she’s ready for Elden Ring. Let’s go 👏😂

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Oh Lord. I still have PTSD from Margit and I thought I was prepared. I definitely was not.

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Give her Skyrim and show her the Nexus and see how long it is before she’s a furry.

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I’m still shocked when I see people promoting Skyrim. In 2024.

Move on, guys.

Edit: my issue with the way people talk about and recommend Skyrim isn’t about how old the game is. I love (good) older games.

Skyrim is barely playable without third party mods, and it’s always been exceedingly mediocre.

Of all the games to recommend in 2024, Skyrim? It’s not even the best game in it’s own series… Maybe not even in the top 3.

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I assume I shouldn’t play Portal or retro games either? If someone is new to gaming, the whole catalog is available to them. Just because it’s old doesn’t mean it isn’t worth playing, especially since the system the mom has isn’t top of the line and may handle those games better than new ones.

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You’ve misunderstood my comment. I love older games. Comparing Skyrim to Portal series is absurd and insulting to Portal.

Skyrim has always been extremely mediocre at best. The way some people still talk about it, you’d think it was the greatest game ever made. It isn’t even the best Elder Scrolls game.

It’s barely playable without mods.

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We will move on, as soon as bethesda does. Hehe. We can’t play elder scrolls 6 yet. But serioisly, skyrim with good mods is still a better game than almost all newer games. So, hard to really feel bad for still recommending it.

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Launches game picks khajiit or an argonian

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Uhh maybe I’ll have her try Stardew Valley next…

Then again, I’m certain there are furry mods for Stardew valley as well. No where is safe from them.

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Then to Disco Elysium to turn her into an anti-fascist

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She’s gonna lust after Shane. they all do.

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I mean, free pizzas, need I say more?

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Another excuse to roast her about her terrible taste in men then!

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There’s also Spiritfarer although it can be pretty heavy emotionally. But the gameplay loop is on the easier side.

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The emotional roller-coaster in this game is definitely real.

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Whoa, cool it! Maybe going the route of emotional decimation for someone new to playing games is a tad much.

Start with the light-hearted stuff first, then ask if she enjoys having her heart ripped directly from her chest, then suggest “Spiritfarer”.

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