I’m becoming more aware of the rest of my own body and its sensations, and I’d like to hear perspectives from the community: where when and how do you like to be touched? For simplicity let’s say only your partner’s hands.
For genital contact, I like when my partner grabs my penis at the base and squeezes hard. Something about the way the blood surges under their grip.
For other contact, it depends on gender. With men, I like the way a guy can squeeze my shoulders/arms. I think it’s a strength thing, with both our muscles flexing together. With women, it’s 100% when they grab the hair on the back of my head while I’m going down on them. It’s a very intimate moment of course, and I like how if I hit a spot just right with my tongue or nose that I immediately get feedback from her through her grip.
Nothing gets me up and running faster than soft caressing the sides of my belly.
Inner thighs, the small of my back, running their fingers over my stomach for gentle caresses.
Grabbing my hair and my throat for not-so-gentle touches!
I’ve never felt comfortable grabbing a woman’s hair roughly. There’s something about the power dynamics and gender difference which get to me. Next time she’s seems into it I’ll be more open. Thanks for sharing.
I’ve always loved being scratched (and bitten, slapped, whipped, etc - I just love pain). My wife scratching her nails up and down my arms can send me to another world.
Honestly anywhere and everywhere which is probably why I love sex so much. But nipple stimulation is probably the best of the best. That or my mouth.
I’m not into being choked but when my wife is riding me cowgirl style and she puts her hands near my throat it really gets me going.