I’m becoming more aware of the rest of my own body and its sensations, and I’d like to hear perspectives from the community: where when and how do you like to be touched? For simplicity let’s say only your partner’s hands.
For genital contact, I like when my partner grabs my penis at the base and squeezes hard. Something about the way the blood surges under their grip.
For other contact, it depends on gender. With men, I like the way a guy can squeeze my shoulders/arms. I think it’s a strength thing, with both our muscles flexing together. With women, it’s 100% when they grab the hair on the back of my head while I’m going down on them. It’s a very intimate moment of course, and I like how if I hit a spot just right with my tongue or nose that I immediately get feedback from her through her grip.
Inner thighs, the small of my back, running their fingers over my stomach for gentle caresses.
Grabbing my hair and my throat for not-so-gentle touches!
I’ve never felt comfortable grabbing a woman’s hair roughly. There’s something about the power dynamics and gender difference which get to me. Next time she’s seems into it I’ll be more open. Thanks for sharing.
I’ve always loved being scratched (and bitten, slapped, whipped, etc - I just love pain). My wife scratching her nails up and down my arms can send me to another world.
I don’t like being touched in particular areas. Makes me super uncomfortable. I’m big on hugs and cuddling, tho.
Yasss hugs and cuddling <33 I am generally okay with being touched anywhere (depending on the context of course) but one place - my bellybutton. I hate it. Idk what it is but it makes me feel ill
My pp
Left ear lobe. My top zinger. Better than touching my dick.