Like it’s only so long until a user there posts a dumbass “Kick Tankies out of Lemmy” meme to try and start shit to get us defedded and hexbears take the bait immediately and pile on to tell them what a dumbass they are.
Like as dumb as the “death to NATO” being compared to “death to the people of NATO” stuff was, blahaj and hexbear are the largest queer instances and I quite like taking part in it and their trans communities, idk it’s kinda nice to interact with people who don’t have the same kind of hexbear brainrot where I see the words “pumpkin spice”, “Maoist cult”, “Soyfacing PMC radlib” or “rock stacking” and immediately start to go :sus: mentally, it feels refreshing to be able to talk to an incredibly queer positive community that doesn’t have the same kind of internet poisoning as all of us. And it seems kind of assholy that some of the users here just don’t give a shit and want to post and dunk until we get defedded by every instance, this isn’t like lemmy.ca where they were all dicks that none of us liked anyway and were complaining about us doing hate speech against fucking landlords or lemm.ee where almost every time time a user from there pops their head into our threads here they say something racist or transphobic. iirc blahaj.zone was actually the second most requested instance to federate with in the pre federation discussions due to how good of a queer space it was.
Like their first defed thread was a complete embarrassment because there were a load of users there that actually had positive opinions towards us and then they saw the shitshow happening once from the post reaching active and changed to be way against us which tbh, fair enough.
Edit:
statements from the head mod Ada:
I’ve been on Lemmy for all of two months and don’t understand all of the defederation drama. I just want to be able to view all of the communities and I’ll ignore or block content I don’t want to see. Simple as that.
I rather like this community and it would be annoying to have to make a new account just to view it.
I think that I’ve hit my personal limit on Federation drama.
I’m very close to just starting to spam blahaj.zone with Leslie Feinberg. If you think that the liberal regime will give us any rights without massive struggle, you don’t know our fucking history.
Liberals have given trans people nothing, we have had to claw everything we have from their cold dead grasp.
Unironically would be interested to read that, I still have that trans liberation pdf lying around somewhere on my computer
I really struggle to respect someone who repeatedly said “People of NATO” and never recanted, but I do need to respect her handling of this.
Gonna have to ask you to, its better for the trans community to keep shit together so we can spread survival tips to each other, even if 196 makes the instance insufferable and oftentimes transphobic
Im hoping theyll do something about how problematic 196 is at some point, but I doubt it
Ah, I meant the internal regard kind of respect, not the outward demeanor kind. I don’t plan on wrecking.
I thought Beehaw was the fascist instance