@alyaza@beehaw.org is MIA currently, but this weekly thread has been so awesome to see and keep going; so I am making what would be her typical post for this week. Alyaza; stay safe friend, I hope everything is okay.

Beeple, how’s your mid week going so far??

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It’s pretty bad. I am a freshly graduated programmer, I am pretty confident with my programming skills but I can’t find a job for 5 months now. I’am trying to make my communication skills better tho cuz English is not my first language but yeah.

Edit: just got an invitation for a job interview wish me luck!!!

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Same boat here, haha. My spouse is a senior dev and mentors me when needed but even that isn’t helping. I’m just working voluntarily for someone that was my instructor but I am pretty much refactoring the code most of the time, lol.

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oh, we got this!!

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Good luck with the interview!

Even if you aren’t going to work there for whatever reason, the first interview is normally what sets things in motion and makes other opportunities start popping up all around you.
I have no idea why it’s this way, but it’s my personal observation and what most people I know tell me, so based on lots of anecdotal evidence.

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Yeah I’ve been in a few interview and yeah what you said about the first interview thing is right. At least every month I had one to two interviews and the last interviewer said that I need to improve on my English verbally like expressing my self, my ideas and less “umm/uhhh” moments.

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That’s great news, and fantastic timing! Good luck on the interview, though I’m sure you’ve got this.

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Thank you and I will do my best

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Edit: just got an invitation for a job interview wish me luck!!!

Glad to hear it! Good luck, you’ve got this! 💪

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One of my loved ones is in hospital (in another town) so I’m really hoping they are okay.

I still feel really shy about posting here, but I’m trying to be more myself on the internet lately. Or in general.

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My prayers and sympathy. I also hope your loved one gets better soon and has a good prognosis.

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Thank you! And thanks for starting the thread I like these, though I mostly lurk.

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Sending positive thoughts, hope they pull through

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Thank you! They are a huge believer in positive thoughts so I will tell them they are getting some extra!

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Been pretty chill so far!

Playing some baldurs gate 3 and studying for the az-305 test. Looks like the role based tests are going to be open book with access to Microsoft Learn soon.

My girlfriend moved in after a year and a half as well, got lots of organizing and remembering how to live when it’s not just you in the house again. Been almost 3 years since I’ve had someone else around haha. Going wonderfully so far!

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That’s so cool! It’s so enjoyable to learn that side of someone you love as well, all the little things you only know about someone if you live with them.

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I agree!

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Nice to hear someone is having a great day.

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Not super great. I had a planned surgery this Tuesday that the anesthesiologists cancelled last minute because I had some mild symptoms they weren’t comfortable with. Given that this surgery involves two surgeons and a robot it may be some time before it gets rescheduled but I’m currently left in the dark- both of the surgeons regular schedulers are off so they’re trying to find someone else to figure it out and they need to use OR time for the other surgeon because the main surgeon is booked into December. I’m a bit worried it’s gonna be a rather long wait but I won’t know for a bit- they asked to give them until next Monday to sort out a schedule 😔

So I’m gonna need to figure out support again whenever they decide to book me, and probably will need to go back to work for an unknown period of time 🫠

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That must be incredibly frustrating, but it’s also good to see the anaesthetists take their job so seriously. Hope you don’t have to wait too long

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Yeah honestly a lot of feelings I’m dealing with right now but frustration is one of the top ones. I wish I could cry about it but that’s just not in the cards right now

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On one hand? I’ve posted a ton of memes that seem to make people happy.

On the other hand? I am desperately alone and failing at everything and can’t make myself happy. Can’t provide for myself. Can’t even sleep.

I’m not doing okay and I don’t even have friends to talk to. Things are rough and I’m afraid.

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You should probably talk to a therapist. Maybe a psychologist. I know people who have gone through tough times ; going through therapy sessions helped them a big deal.

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Easier said than done. I’m on a wait list and have been for months.

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