That makes so much sense in context.

Sometimes we move to the cities and fuck shit up there too.

🤞

I did have some questions about that but I hadn’t quite decided or figured out how to do all that. If you’ve got more specific tips I’m here for it!

Idk, disgust, sadness, and fear are some pretty big players too.

Idk but her native language appears to be temptations cat treats, no observable difference between flavors.

They’re a lot of things from my discharge readiness list too :)

Honestly the way I look at it is more that I just had to let her know how I prefer to cuddle with her and she was cool with it. It just took a while to do that because aside from not speaking English she doesn’t even really think the same way at all so.

Fun skill for this! Sometimes a short burst of exercise that raises your heart rate will trick your brain into thinking that the scary thing has occurred and it can now go into cooldown mode! In dialectal behavior therapy it’s part of T.I.P.P. (it’s the I for Intense Physical Exercise). Here’s the rest of that skill in the digital garden I made for people who can’t afford therapy (its still a work in progress though).

I just trained her to snuggle up in my lap instead. Only took a month or so and that’s what she’s done for years now.