barrage4u
I disagree, I think most of the time it’s pretty easy to read someone’s intention (since there are only limited choices and there are ways of communicating like indicators). But I think the fact that you’re not face to face with the person and are much more likely not to face consequences for your actions definitely plays into it
I think a big part of it is that driving is inherently dangerous (you’re in a metal box going much faster than you’re capabale of going yourself, your health and finances are at stake) and frustrating (waiting in traffic, people making mistakes).
All those things put people on edge and cause them to act out
To me it depends on:
- How much money I’m contributing vs my partner
- How much time we both work
- What hours we both work
I’m paying all the bills and you’re not working? You’re doing all the chores. We both work 40 hr weeks but I earn and contribute more? Close to a 50/50 split of chores. My partner works night shifts? I’ll do all the stuff that can only be done during the day.
I think unless your partner is unemployed you should both be doing some chores, but who does what depends on the circumstances.