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My train was stopped in the middle of my ride home because of a terrorist attack, I may have missed the last ever chance to celebrate with my great-grandmother because my entire extended family got COVID, my hometown is desperately trying to prevent a huge flood and when i found out that i would be sad and lonely on christmas my muslim friends ghosted me :) So its a mix of some circumstances.

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We… May have to close this thread early, I think you won.

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42 points

Please remember that it is okay to be sad - sometimes it’s literally the only correct response to a situation:-).

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Holy shit, where do you live? Sorry to hear about your missed chance to celebrate with your great-grandma.

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I was curious too, based on the timing I think they live somewhere in Europe and have family in Germany. There have been attack threats in Cologne

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Yea without disclosing anything too specific: I have to drive through cologne to get home. The entire region is having problems with floods, but my city is facing additional complications.

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Xmas for me was ruined because I found a guy that was robbed and dumped in the middle of nowhere during my drive.

Helping him fucked up my entire days plans and even the little festivities I wanted to take part in but bloody hell who robs someone on Xmas and then leaves them to die? Ofc I had to help.

The intense rain didn’t help. I think I’m ill now.

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What the fuck.

Hope you’re both doing alright. I guess one could say something about how helping others is what Christmas is all about or whatever, but seriously, what the fuck is wrong with people.

Good thing you were there to be a decent human being in a shitty situation.

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Glad you were there to help at least. I imagine being robbed and murdered and dying in the rain would rank towards the high end of the β€œworst Christmases ever”. If nothing else today will be one of your more memorable ones.

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Thank you for being a good person anyway! Your plans may both have been ruined, but you’re a hero to that guy! You’ll both remember each other for the rest of your lives!

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I said above that Christmas is alien to me, but isn’t helping people and doing good the whole β€˜spirit of Christmas’ thing? In a sense, you had the most appropriate Christmas even though it wasn’t the most pleasant.

And, of course, you helped save a life. You’re a hero!

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my mother. asked her to stop bringing up my rapist in conversation with me. she said β€œya know other people have problems too.” Then she went and had holiday lunch at his house. that was before I was set to drive there for christmas, so instead I stayed home and did nothing. Turns out christmas is just a regular day.

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Holy shit I’m so sorry. I’d give you all the hugs if I could.

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Your mother sounds like what specialists would describe as a, and i quote, β€œmassive cunt”

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That’s awful I’m so sorry. That’s the kind of betrayal that you just don’t come back from.

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My <1 year old nephew nearly choked to death on a nerf dart. He briefly went unresponsive before the ambulance got there and would probably be dead if both his parents didn’t have medical training.

So I guess it’s not ruined in that he’s still alive and probably okay (still waiting to see if he aspirated anything), but it’s not how you want to spend Christmas! Especially the older siblings watching all this happen.

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Wow I’m super glad he’s ok. That could have been so so so much worse

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im cpr certified and technically have the knowledge to β€œsave” a choking person as i work a β€œsafety job”. i often wonder if id actually be able to do it in a real situation. shits scary i hope kiddos ok.

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The doctors gave him the all clear!

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You would.

Instincts kick in and you just do without thinking.

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Imagine killing someone with a nerf gun. That’s gotta be a record!

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Whew, glad they saved him! Reminds me I used to tell friends with children or that live alone they should have a LifeVac in their home medical kit. Under 100 bucks.

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Thanks! I didn’t know this existed.

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Humans. Where is my snow?

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I too was mad that there was no snow on the ground for Christmas this year. Then I got a blizzard warning on my phone so it might still work out Β―_(ツ)_/Β―

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You dropped this \

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7 points

washed up on beaches in Australia

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I’m swimming in it! We always have a white Christmas, but this year it’s spectacular. You could already ski (cross country) on the 23rd, since then there’s 20 more centimetres of crispy new snow on top. It’s amazing!

Obviously doesn’t compensate for the heat elsewhere, but it won’t stop me from appreciating what we’ve got!

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Californian checking in, never have had a white Christmas πŸ‘

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When I first moved to L.A. from Indiana and was opening a bank account, I was chatting with the banker and it turned out she had never seen snow up close! That baffled me, especially when you can see it in the mountains all winter if you just look up.

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Western Canada, and this is the brownest Christmas of my life (over half a century.)

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Always wanted to go to BC, it seems incredibly beautiful. So sad to hear how noticeable the effects of climate change are there already.

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My wife and I have a Christmas tradition (in Germany).
We go swimming in a local river or lake at some point between Christmas eve and new year.
The last 4 years it was always warmer than 10Β°C during that time. 3 years ago, it was 18Β°C, which was completely bizarre. We were lying in the sun to dry after our bath in late December.

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