This is my wife and me. Also, she loves to plan trips and I love to be spontaneous. The compromise is she plans everything for the trip and doesn’t tell me anything. That way she gets her organization and I get my surprises.
I swear it’s easier to get a toddler out the door than my wife.
When a toddler is finally all dressed up and ready to go, they invariably suddenly need a diaper change. Is it the same with your wife?
Last trip I went on I packed six days before, but on the night of the trip lay in bed awake, anxiously worrying that I’d chosen the wrong luggage and wanted to use my other stuff instead, so I had to get up and start repacking everything at 2AM and I was destroyed with tiredness the day of the flight.
So I’m not sure what that makes me.
when you have a travel list with notes to remind you of your past lapses: [ ] deodorant (!full!)
There’s a third, who starts packing on the day of departure and is ready after half an hour.
That’s kinda me, though a little more than half an hour tho.
I already know the things I need to have passport, wallet, toothbrush, etc. Then it’s just clothes which is just knowing I how many days I’m going for and having that number of clothing. And yeah I’ll often do laundry day of, because I know how long it takes to do, so why not?
It’s not really all that difficult. But I admit I often forget the headphones so I have a few sets that I’ve bought at the airport. But not a big deal.
I’m usually a night-before kind of packer. But I usually over-pack and over-prepare. I’ll bring everything from sunscreen, to rain coats, extras of every piece of apparel, even extra toiletries when I can.
I go from being totally unprepared two days prior, to basically ready to go on a month-long trip for a week vacation, in less than 4 hours.
That is my wife.
We agreed a week in advance to pack a specific size luggage. I had my luggage packed a week in advance. The night before she finally packed and we had to check a extra bag.
We were going to another metropolitan city. 😭😭😭
Oh, I almost never go far from a major metro. I can buy anything I forget, generally a replacement is less than 10 minutes by car at most, and usually less than 5 minutes walking.
There’s just something satisfying about the SO going “darn, I forgot my brush/comb/usb charger/phone cable/toothbrush/whatever” and within seconds I produce one for them.
I don’t usually travel by plane so checking bags isn’t usually a concern.
In my case it’s similar, but specifically I overpack work stuff (camera gear, mostly) thinking I’ll be taking time during vacations to film personal things/try new techniques/update my website/plan future shoots/do marketing/etc etc etc. All the stuff I never have time to do while grinding away at home.
Sometimes on big road trips where we don’t visit family, I manage to film some personal stuff (landscapes, etc), but right now we’re on the annual family visits trip and feeling like fuck no am I not gonna bother haha. Then I spend the whole time complaining about why on earth I felt the need to bring this cumbersome stuff every time I’m packing the car…