New account but I’ve been using burner accounts and lurking since the sub got banned. I’ve been seeing all the standard liberal brainworms again for the first time since people who wandered into the sub.
I gotta imagine this will only last another week before everyone defederates us, but let’s enjoy it for now.
There’s blood in the water and it isn’t ours. It’s fantastic
Hell yeah it rules
I hope it’s fine that I, as an external, come into your space and give my opinion here, this seems as good a thread as any.
I think what is is the general hostility here. I think I agree with a lot of the political opinions here, however this place seems to revere “dunking” on people. Sure, these people you’re dunking on might not be intelligent, and sure, they might, with their (wilful) ignorance contribute to the destruction of our planet, but I just hate the hostility, open insults, etc. I think it accomplishes nothing except pushing people away, it’s not changing anyone’s minds.
Whatever good discussion may be found here, I just don’t like to deal with the tone it’s had in. I understand that it’s probably some kind of coping mechanism to deal with this shitty situation we’re all in, but I have different ways to cope and don’t want this big pile of negativity.
Anyway, I wish everyone a nice poop.
I hope it’s fine that I, as an external, come into your space and give my opinion here, this seems as good a thread as any
Sure! We could hardly demand other people stay out, just follow the rules for our instance and comms like you would for any other.
Whatever good discussion may be found here, I just don’t like to deal with the tone it’s had in.
This is fair, but others feel differently. I’ll be nice to people who don’t call me a bot for engaging in good faith but disagreeing.
this place seems to revere “dunking” on people
You need to implement the carrot and the stick. Open minded people get the carrot. Closed? They get the stick. Maybe next time they’ll get the carrot, but they aren’t going to change if that’s all they ever get and all they ever display is being closed to what you’re trying to explain to them.
Certainly doesn’t help that our emoji don’t size properly on other instances and are huuuge. Sorry about that.
And yeah I agree that posters here are often way too eager to be hostile. Sometimes just smelling disagreement will be enough to start a dogpile or get called a “treat defender” lmao.
Right now though it’s because federation is new. Hopefully we chill out a bit before everyone defederates us lol.
Dunking is the exciting new thing rn, go see what’s new on the smaller comms for a chiller vibe.
https://hexbear.net/c/technology
https://hexbear.net/c/urbanism
That’s an extremely mayo concern. You will take your dunking and you will like it crackkker
Bullying works
I think it accomplishes nothing except pushing people away, it’s not changing anyone’s minds.
Do you have scientific sources for that?
Many people who jumped on board with GG originally weren’t people trying to harass women, they were people upset with all the condescension and derision they got from what were labelled “SJWs”.
This is revisionist as fuck. Just like modern complaints about “woke” and “cancel culture”, most of people’s feeling about these things being real come from reactionaries telling them that it’s omnipresent and seeing a handful of exceptional cases. GG has a recorded history of being an impressively-orchestrated 4chan (etc) op, maybe the most successful that they ever had.
I firmly believe GamerGate only happened because things like ShitRedditSays and bullying culture raised the emotional intensity of discourse, which of course caused wilder swings in the other direction.
Holy fucking shit you’re blaming SRS for Gamergate are you out of your fucking mind? It was an intentional fascist op.
And how the fuck can you act like SRS was ineffective? Reddit was a reactionary shithole (more so than today) back then. Gamers said “HAHA I RAPED YOU”, redditors all said there were no women on the internet and quoted the rules that rule 34 comes from unironically. r/jailbait was defended by them as freespeech and Violentacrez was “thrown under a bus” by the admins, according to redditors at that time. Do you remember what being trans on reddit was like back then? Any idea? Because I do. EVERYWHERE on reddit was like r/conservative is today. All the liberals were exactly like that. Utterly hostile to trans people.
Judging by how much has changed the methods utilised by the left on reddit (by which I mean us) were VERY effective at changing all of these things. And it was achieved by being radical, not kowtowing to that shit. By creating different cultural spaces and taking an utterly hostile stance to them.
The problem with liberals with closed minds is that you have to make them uncomfortable first before they’ll open them. Only after they’ve had some really negative experiences do they eventually prefer to have a positive one and open up to actually engaging in good faith. Then they actually fucking learn something. Until you kick that door down all your sugar instead of vinegar is meaningless.
More importantly, is there any evidence that politeness and trying as best as possible to engage in good faith in every interaction leads to better outcomes? Is Posting Praxis?
Obviously not! We’re all just screaming into the void for our own entertainment. If you wanted to make the world better you wouldn’t waste your time on a federated reddit clone telling people they’re being too rude.
Love the gigantic PPB.
Just wanted to remark that a lot of us have learned our lesson about trying to put real effort into political discourse with Internet randos. doesn’t matter if you put hours into tracking down all your sources and trying to make your arguments absolutely airtight, if the person on the other end just calls you a CCP shill, or an ignorant idealistic Westerner who didn’t have to experience “real Communism,” or a bot, etc. It just isn’t worth the time to try to have an academic debate if the other person is obtuse, ideologically committed, a teenager basically a child, or posting from Langley (lol). Edit: unless you really can spare the time, obviously
Also, I think hexbears do a decent job of providing sources on average, you can’t force someone to read/listen to them and engage with them in good faith, though. You know that thing about horses.
Well, happy poops to you too!
Edit: that was unfair to teenagers
Learned that quickly on lemmy.world
Made a long argument, typed it all out, provided multiple sources, and I just got called a troll and then the mod removed my comment
The irony though is my sources were all western sources too. I guess they just don’t like real independent journalism
- we don’t owe anyone long, detailed explanations of why they’re wrong. that info is available from any of hundreds or thousands of different sources, including in published books. if someone comes in and asks a question in good faith, they’ll get a reading list. if someone just comes in and drops their opinion, though, we have no obligation to respect that.
- all of us, at different times, do give those long explanations. they’re just exhausting to type up. no one can demand our time and energy. online debates don’t change opinions. real explanations of the topics that get dunked on here require entire books to unpack the arguments and properly dismantle them. there’s no shortcut for doing the homework and we’re not going to pretend that there is.
- many of the opinions that get dunked on are thought terminating cliches that people don’t reason themselves into – they’re repeating random propaganda they’ve imbibed passively. the best response is to make fun of these ideas, to break the notion that they’re somehow inviolate truths, beyond questioning. that dunking led many people on the old sub – people who wandered much as these new folks are, with opinions that vastly differ from our own – to eventually do some reading and change their own minds. we can’t change anyone’s mind. they have to be open to having their minds changed and embark on that process in their own way, at their own pace.
- civility masks the abject horror of the world we live in. civility is the false peace – it’s a peace marked by masking of tension rather than any resolution of it. our world is not peaceful – it merely pretends to be so by demanding those harmed mask their grievances. many of us here are from minority groups – our grievances will be heard and no amount of tone policing is going to chnage that.
civility masks the abject horror of the world we live in. civility is the false peace – it’s a peace marked by masking of tension rather than any resolution of it. our world is not peaceful
Real energy.
but the white moderate who is more devoted to “order” than to justice; who prefers a negative peace which is the absence of tension to a positive peace which is the presence of justice; who constantly says “I agree with you in the goal you seek, but I can’t agree with your methods of direct action;” who paternalistically feels he can set the timetable for another man’s freedom; who lives by the myth of time and who constantly advises the Negro to wait until a “more convenient season.”
Shallow understanding from people of goodwill is more frustrating than absolute misunderstanding from people of ill will. Lukewarm acceptance is much more bewildering than outright rejection."
That’s fair, but the thing is… the strategy sort of worked for us the first time around. It worked so well that we got kicked off of Reddit despite being one of the largest and fastest growing communities, and we owe that growth to good old fashioned cyberbullying.
The important thing to remember is that nobody on hexbear punches down. If you come in with a bunch of dumbass takes then you’re going to get dunked on, but nobody is going to misgender you or call you an autist as an insult while they do it. Most people who get called out on here deserve it, and if not, you can bet I’ll be making an ass out of myself by defending that person until they inevitably say something that makes me regret it.
I think this will help provide some context.
Some very large portion of people on this website never wanted to federate. We got kicked off reddit over 3 years ago and have been using a fork of the Lemmy software before any of you got big mad at your apps being taken away. WE DON’T WANT YOU HERE. We were quite happy having “uncontacted tribe” status and specifically NOT interacting with the tens of thousands of REDDITORS who got mad and decided to go to lemmy. If we wanted to do that, we could be on reddit. Now, we might as well be on reddit, and for the people who didn’t want that, we fucking hate it.
I don’t come here to “engage in the marketplace of ideas”. Yes, I was perfectly happy having an “echo chamber”. Literally the entire rest of the world is far outside that echo chamber, so what’s the fucking harm of having ONE PLACE that I don’t have to deal with it?
I just want to point out to the lurkers that I did not care the cth sub got banned and I encouraged the banning as I hate reddit. I didnt consider myself part of the community or have any non-neutral feelings to it being banned. PPB is a dead horse being beaten.
I encouraged the banning
I didnt […] have any non-neutral feelings to it being banned
Yes, I was perfectly happy having an “echo chamber”. Literally the entire rest of the world is far outside that echo chamber, so what’s the fucking harm of having ONE PLACE that I don’t have to deal with it?
I like the way @Munrock@Munrock@lemmygrad.ml put it:
Communities like this one are less echo chamber and more like a sound-proofed booth to get some respite from the constant torrent of brain shitfuckery that comes with existing as an anglophone.
Hexbear won’t be the same as it was, there’s no doubt. I am going to miss the kind of community we had there, which wasn’t insular, but just a uniquely lib-free (relatively speaking) island of leftist sanity, despite the ongoing joke that everyone there is a lib. I’m still very interested to see how federation turns out going forward, but it really does fucking suck for the people who liked things as they were and used hexbear as a kind of refuge.
As for the original comment by Azzu:
I just hate the hostility, open insults, etc. I think it accomplishes nothing except pushing people away, it’s not changing anyone’s minds.
It may not accomplish anything for you but there’s a reason the chapotraphouse subreddit was one of the highest volume posting subs on the site, often made it to the front page, and was growing quickly, only to be banned. It does work, and we know this because it worked on a lot of us. There’s a wide range of how people from hexbear respond to fresh libs, and part of that includes insults and reveling in the dunking on them. Just as there’s a wide range to the kind of rhetorical tactics that people (including lurkers just watching the dunks) are receptive to. It’s fine if you have other ways to cope, you don’t have to participate. Block the hexbear instance if you’re inclined to do so.
It does work, and we know this because it worked on a lot of us.
This is a great point that I think should be underscored. Lots of people here came onto r/CTH as vaguely disaffected libs, Bernieceats, “progressives,” or the like. For very many people here, it was interacting on that sub that actually kicked us down the road to a more sophisticated and radical understanding of political economy. It led to us reading theory, getting involved in our local socialist orgs, and generally learning to understand exactly what is wrong with the global capitalist order. I definitely believe that this happens–at least for some people–because of the tone, not in spite of the tone. The jokes are the thin end of a wedge that, for at least some people in the right headspace, can open your mind.
it’s beautiful to see how strong our posters have become
189 comments to 110 upvotes
A week ago: ah shit, another struggle session
Today: looks like some libs are getting spammed
The best part is emojis become supersized images on lemmy. Like here’s what your comment looks like on their end:
