225 points

Lemmy for me is all Linux, politics, boobs, anime and sports. I’m a straight woman who hates sports and anime, has a surface interest in Linux but doesn’t wish to debate about it, and likes to be knowledgeable about both world and US politics but hates the anger. I’m really debating if Lemmy is for me, but I won’t go back to reddit and I need someplace to browse when the insomnia strikes.

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Sorry for this, feel free to block all of the communities related to the topics. That should allow smaller ones to come to your feed.

Pictures, food, movies communities are rising, there is hope

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6 points

Is there an instruction manual on blocking/adding communities? I’m on Sync

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I don’t know unfortunately, you can probably ask at !syncforlemmy@lemmy.world

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4 points

Click the 3 dot button on a post. Select filter. You can filter by user, community, or entire instance.

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61 points

I started blocking like a madman and my experience improved considerably

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17 points

Same - my blocklist is gigantic now, but by combining that with subscriptions means that I can always choose between a very tightly curated list of stuff that interests me and nothing else (browsing subscribed) and a much bigger list of more random stuff that lets me discover new things but still doesn’t have sports, cars, porn and other things in actively disinterested in (browsing all). I like this system a lot.

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8 points

I just do what I did with reddit and only browse all whenever I get REALLY bored.

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5 points

This is the way.

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How do you do that? I cant figure it out. If i see one nore fuck cars post in gonna lose my shit

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On the basic mobile website, you go to the sub… community you want to block, expand the side bar button at the top, then hit Block Community.

For example, on this post, I go into these comments, hit Showerthoughts at the top, then side bar, then block.

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I know what you mean. I’ve been struggling myself. On top of kind of being unable to relate, I’m not tech savvy and with a demanding toddler on me I just don’t find the time or energy to figure out how to even search for the right communities. I’m trying, but at 2 am when I have 15 minutes for myself and this app asks me what instance I want to view something in and doesn’t let me comment something somewhere and then I try to check whether Abrathatfits is already on lemmy I get a million (non bra related) search results - it’s just echausting for I don’t know what. I miss the memes (I don’t get 80% of the memes here since most are some jokes about tech or coding), and I miss the girly subs. I miss makeup addiction ffs and beyond the bump, and moldly interesting. I like politics in general but somehow the communities here don’t have any news that I care about. The ukraine communities are also rather dead here, that was an important one since I have family on both sides of the border. Maybe I should put more effort into it, more energy, more search les and adjustments, but it might just be that lemmy, while a great concept, is just not for me. Maybe there just aren’t the communities I need. I also doubt I will go back to reddit but damn, I am lost. Maybe I should. Especially when it comes to Ukraine I am really debating whether supporting a futile protest of a social media website to make a point is really worth being less informed and connected. Sorry for the long rant tho.

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I’m somehow in a similar yet completely different boat from you. My feed under all is made up of like 5 communities - memes, lemmy memes, 196, linux memes, and programmer humor - with guest appearances by politics and technology. Regardless of what I set the filter on my feed to, I have yet to see a single piece of porn crop up; and I had to specifically find a search tool on my pc to find some communities to subscribe to like an r/foodporn equivalent just so I would at least have some stuff pop up on my phone with some more variety related to my interests.

This is probably all related to Lemmy being new and not knowing how to get the most out of the app I’m using (and that being new as well), but as of right now I’m largely using Lemmy the way I used to use Twitter X or something rather than how I used to use Reddit. As a time waster rather than a place where I got invested in the communities I interacted with.

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9 points

Block the meme communities. It makes things much better. I wish there was a way to relegate certain things to a separate feed without completely blocking them. But right now block is the only tool.

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8 points

I’ve actually considered making other accounts to separate content out by blocking different communities on them, but I’ve never really felt the desire to filter out the memes enough to go through with it.

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9 points

Yeah you really have to block the annoying communities. I did have to do that on Reddit too as well though. And subscribe to some nice stuff so you have a good home feed to look at when All isn’t working for you.

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7 points

It’s still growing so it’ll get better! I hope

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5 points

I’m pretty similar to you. Not much interest in technology, I already do it so often during my day-to-day that any more turns me over my breaking point. The main communities I am subscribed to are either picture-related or food-related, hope you can find what you enjoy!

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4 points

tbh I browser All or Local really rarely, I am mostly in my subscribed communities and really like Lemmy

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4 points

You’ll find your niche here I bet… Give it time

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3 points

Much to my dismay I have yet to see a single boob on Lemmy

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3 points

9/10s of mine is food and cute animals.

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I too left reddit, and lemmy so far works for going to sleep. It’s a different flavor but it’s still great for helping me drift off… Zzzzz…

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2 points

!politics wants civil discussion and not anger, but it’s hard to encourage that.

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I wonder if playing around with filtering like top/local (on different instances)/subscribed would make this better. There’s always the block community option, but that doesn’t seem to work well to hide topics and would be a pain to keep on top of.

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I am really enjoying the statement on being a straight woman, but unlike the rest of your statements you didn’t elaborate on boobs.

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127 points

More like hide all the furry boards

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12 points

Shh… you can block communities. (You habe to see them at least once though :/)

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21 points

There’s like 800 different furry communities, all for extremely specific fetishes.

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7 points

Unfortunately I already know that gamer move

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5 points

Still, hiding all of them automatically would be nice

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3 points

Apparently you can block from within a comments section now. That’s slightly safer than going to a community front page…

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9 points

If they’re all on the same instance, there app that can block entire instances.

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5 points

use this comment as a handy shortcut

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5 points

I literally never seen anything Furry on Lemmy, but it took me 2 minutes on Bkuesky to find not one but two prolific Bara artists.

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I’ve seen community names on a list that were furry stuff, but so far have not come across any.

That shit is so fucked. At least the sexual stuff. But even the look of more innocent kinds puts me off, personally. I’m ok with that kind existing, but I don’t wanna see it.

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3 points

Yes! in my streaming service too please

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2 points

This with the power of a thousand suns

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107 points

Same. Though can we also add a button to hide all content pertaining to US state politics? “The governor of Arkansas-” I live in The Netherlands, that shit has no bearing on me

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28 points

Same ! I live in india , but seems like i am wayyy to updated with us political news !ugh

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7 points

Well, since we’re here, what are the big news where you live these days?

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7 points

To be fair, I am Lithuanian and a lot of stuff online goes like અને પછી તેઓ કેટલીક અસ્પષ્ટ ભાષા બોલવાનું શરૂ કરે છે

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I got used to it, you just need to look at the US as a union of states like Europe, in which case Arkansas is about equivalent to Lithuania in population (although if you correct for the more states and less pop of the US you get Bulgaria or Finland if you use a ranked method) . The same could be done for China, India and Brazil.

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8 points

Sir, how dare you insult Lithuania like that.

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Alright, polandball time: I’ll ask around the EU++ who wants to play Arkansas in the school play…if nobody takes it, I’m giving it to Hungary :D because they’re being a dick lately. So, which state do you want? I hear Idaho’s nice :) Germany already took California, France took New York, Italy took Texas, Spain took Florida, the Netherlands took Pennsylvania, Poland took Illinois, Romania got Georgia, Sweden asked for Michigan and Austria asked for Massachusets, Finland got offered Indiana, but picked Arizona, lol etc etc…do you want Wisconsin? Also: UK guest starring as Canada and Turkey as Mexico lol

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Didn’t realize Lithuania was under 3 million. For some reason I had it in my head that they were closer to 4-5. Insane.

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I kinda like it as a soap opera. I hate actual soaps, but this is a better version to watch.

I can go through so much popcorn.

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As an american, yes please lol

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7 points

It will when we stop being the Republic and get this Empire phase rolling.

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5 points

A huge part of that is american-centric attitudes though. There is the politics sub on Lemmy.world and it’s only for US politics. But it’s not called “usonlypolitics” it’s called “politics”. Somehow they don’t see the problem with that.

Also the mods are been absolutely bellends about it and are refusing to even acknowledge that that is a problem.

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2 points

But why would the world champions of egg handball see a problem with this?

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Easy to be the world champion in egg handball if you’re the only country that plays that version of egg handball.

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86 points

or us politics

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Which instances local have less content on politics or us politics? Beside lemmynsfw of course

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9 points

yiffit

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3 points

Well you’re not wrong

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There is surprisingly less of this on the Fediverse. On Reddit I had a massive blocklist with words like Biden, Trump, DeSantos, AOC etc. and I still wasn’t saved from all of the bullshit over in the land of the free.

I rarely see all of that crap here and it’s honestly very refreshing.

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4 points

When i browse all every other post i get is politics or musk

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75 points

Give us an option to block memes as well then, my biggest issue with Lemmy is the tsunami of terrible and practically unavoidable memes. I don’t ever see sports content, rarely see NSFW content, there is a fair amount of Elon spam, but really the worst are the memes. Even doing my best to hide the meme communities they are unavoidable.

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The main problem being that people have dug up the last 10 years of reddit memes to repost then on Lemmy.

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16 points

If you’re not here for memes or porn then why?!

/s

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7 points

If we hid meme communities, I’m not sure there would be any posts left.

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I don’t mind memes but holy shit most of them are so bad and the volume is just too much.

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The only two communities I blocked were just a barrage of memes straight to the frontpage.

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