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I guess this is based on the idea that iPhones are expensive or exclusive? Or rather, some people think that iPhone owners think they’re elite for having what is actually the most common phone in the US? They haven’t been the most expensive phones on the market for at least 7 years.

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Americans flex about the weirdest things.

The most common truck, the most common phone, food from the most ubiquitous fast food joint, having merch from the most popular artists and sports teams.

Those are their biggest flexs.

Yeah buddy, great flex with your Taylor swift hoodie, Starbucks frap, iPhone 12 in your Ford F-150.

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Its especially confusing because for many, many years, and even still today, American’s are pushed to be UNIQUE and whenever anyone is UNIQUE then people criticize them for enjoying or doing things outside whatever is ubiquitous for whatever thing. Its ridiculous honestly.

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Advertising. You can partly blame Freud’s American nephew Edward Bernays.

The father of PR, pioneer of propaganda and advertising, and an epic cunt.

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I used to find it extremely confusing. I think my mistake was, growing up I adopted the values our society says they care about… turns out, our values aren’t actually freedom, or a fair society, or inventing/creating things (unless a megacorp does it)

It’s all doublespeak - every time a politician expresses a value, their actions are probably about to show the opposite

For example, by loudly insisting we’re the land of the free we don’t consider the fact we have by far the largest slave population in the world. You can literally rent slave labor, bill the state to house them, and hand them a bill for their living costs when they get parole…

I could rant about this all day, it’s insanity when you start to look at this all up close

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You should always be yourself*.

* as long as you are attractive and all of your quirks are endearing and socially acceptable.

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For all its boasts about “independence” and “freedom”, the thing America values most is conformity.

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If you think about it, it just proves the ‘genius’ behind these companies advertising strategies. They have managed to convince a large percentage of the population that their mass market products a rare, unique and something to be desired.

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And also the most common death of children being shot.

/s

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Is this the new Godwin’s law? That every thread will culminate in someone bringing up school shootings for no fucking reason?

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Note to phone users of all makes, I really couldn’t give a fuck what colour your chat bubble is.

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If you have a bit of technical know-how you can set up a BlueBubbles server to get iMessage on android.

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I think that’s the real reason. It’s been 10 years since I saw anyone think they’re special because they have an iPhone but still run into this concept that iPhone users think they’re elite. Perhaps that’s true for some tiny percentage of apple fanatics, but for the average person, it’s just the phone they prefer or the phone they have.

I’ve been to bars and begged them humbly to help me charge my phone and never once have I thought “IPHONE, yeah! You heard me!”

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Talking with younger family members, the iPhone elitism mentally is still alive and well in middle/high school. There’s a very good chance you simply aged out of of where people give a shit

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The elitism is also alive whenever someone refers to their phone as an iphone.

They are purposely spelling out the brand of their phone, as if that matters somehow.

You got the same with Samsung users. They refer to their phone as a Samsung.

It is a phone, or a smartphone. Giving free advertisement to a giant corporation will not grant you anything other than the contempt of those around you as it makes someone seem like a douche.

Same with ipads, call them tablets.

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Never underestimate the power of Apple’s marketing department.

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I believe the point was “I am specifically asking for an iphone cable so you know that I have an iphone and not an inferior android”, which is not actually a flex because nobody thinks iphone users are cool except iphone users.

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Yeah, imagine being so dramatic that you assume someone asking for a damn phone charger is trying to flex on you instead of just trying to charge their phone.

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Who the hell asks for a cable as a flex?

Who the hell has such an inferiority complex that they think someone asking for an iphone cable is a flex?

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There are people who based their entire personality on their Apple products, and I’m not even exaggerated.

On my social media’s feed the other day, someone posted “I’m literally crying during the apple event, I felt disrespected by apple and the new iphone”.

I was like “wtf does that even mean, dude.”

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yeah that’s a cult lol

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21 points

I once stubled across a girl on tinder who wouldn’t date anyone who doesn’t have an iphone.

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I’m sure there’s plenty of stupid on tinder, an iphone is a lousy metric. Used ones can be had for far cheaper than the mistake of wasting money trying to date someone like that.

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Me too, but it was because I couldn’t use FaceTime.

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Thank apple for locking that down. There’s also Matrix as well that is actually cross platform and has video chats.

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For me as an iPhone user, its more like an embarrassment to ask for a lightning cable.

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I feel the same…because I feel dumb for having not thought to bring my own or adequately charge my phone. If anything else, I’m probably irritated too because of the proprietary cable means I can’t just use any old USB-C, or micro/mini usb that are so ubiquitous.

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There are areas in the world where the overpriced iPhone costs more then a persons income for 2 - 3 months or even more. Owning such a device is a matter of status and overcoming low self esteem by association with a famous brand.

In short: a lot of people.

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I remember when they switched from 30 pin to lightning when I was in highschool. It was the best time to be a little shit, whenever someone asked if you had an iphone charger you could ask what kind they need and then say you have neither.

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I have always had an Android phone, while my wife has had iPhones. Whenever one of the kids got old enough to get their own phone, they inherited hers and gave her an excuse to get a new iPhone. (Meanwhile I just traded mine in.)

The unintentional result is that she can never find a charging cable or block for her phone because the kids keep taking them (and inevitably somehow breaking them), while I have a surplus of ways to charge my own. And also the kids’ batteries are always low, because they can’t figure out how to ration screen use with an old-ass worn out battery.

So everyone else in the house is always squabbling about who took the charger, while I rarely see my phone dip below 50%. They hate it SO MUCH when I point this out. I swear I try not to smirk when I do.

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I mean, your kids didn’t choose to have an iphone, so it seems like kind of a dick move towards them specifically.

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Well, we actually did give them the choice. They all chose iPhone, though I admit we encouraged that because it was simpler to lock those down and keep track of their location with them when they were younger.

My oldest had his for a few years and switched to an Android when he became more tech savvy and realized that an Apple didn’t afford him the customization he wanted and didn’t mesh as well with the PC he built with his summer job money.

I kind of like that we have an assortment of ecosystems in the house, because it exposes them to the advantages and drawbacks of each. Lord knows they hear me cussing out Windows often enough when I use the laptop, so maybe they’ll be motivated to learn to use another OS when they’re older.

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Or they could take the route I did.

I looked at Zorin and went “Ooh, pretty!” and learned how to install it

And that’s why I use Linux

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Good news! With the next generation iPhone, your cables are no longer safe.

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D’oh!

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8 points

I went to visit my in-laws one winter and my Samsung charging block turned up missing. I’m the only non-Apple phone in the family. I’d be mad, but I’m sure someone needed it more than me.

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