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sex stuff, bodily functions
This seems to be the sex megathread today, so now’s a good time to ask: how do I get rid of boners? I don’t mean random erections, those have pretty much gone away, but rather all erections, including when I’m aroused. I know the advice for keeping erections is “use it or loose it”, but I hardly ever “use” it. Sometimes though when I’m reading, uh, “literature” it can get engorged. Is that contributing to it? How much is too much? Do I just need to avoid all sexy thoughts for a few months? I’ve been on hormones for a little over a year, but I don’t know if that’s earlier or later than normal for ED. I’m also wondering if, since I’m more of a “grower”, it might just be harder for me because it doesn’t take as much blood to get things moving. Any tips or advice would be appreciated, I’ve even considered getting a chastity cage just for this lol
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also wondering if, since I’m more of a “grower”, it might just be harder for me because it doesn’t take as much blood to get things moving. Any tips or advice would be appreciated, I’ve even considered getting a chastity cage just for this lol
I’ve also had both thoughts
I am impatiently awaiting a knowledgable person to answer this.
anatomy, surgery, sex
I want to preserve tissue for bottom surgery, so I try to make it engorged for 10-20 minutes per week. But i dont want it getting engorged otherwise. I want it to stay soft and flaccid, easy to tuck/control, while still being, you know, sensitive to stimulation such as a vibrator. I feel like if it wasnt at risk of getting engorged i would be so much more comfortable getting fully undressed with a partner. As it is i keep everything tucked as well i can during sex, which is difficult and sometimes painful.
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Yeah that’s a big reason why I want to get rid of them. Like the thought of being naked with a partner and having one is kinda mortifying and when I’m alone it tends to kill the mood and make the experience worse
I’ve even considered getting a chastity cage just for this lol
Late to party but this is going to be the opposite effect, a cage low key stimulates the whole time it’s worn.