I donāt get it. What does my momās sexuality have to do with me? Also, why is sleeping with someone thatās ~25 years older something to brag about?
In my opinion the reason itās supposedly insulting is rooted in misogyny. A woman is the property of her male relatives. When someone sleeps with her without the permission of these relatives, he uses their property without permission, demonstrating his power over them.
I do realise that many people use this insult because itās just something you say. But I think itās worth reflecting about what it actually is you are saying.
I think itās more than that. For some people their mom is their hero for taking care of them and they have a special love for her. Now if someone sleeps with my mom just to brag, the insult is that they did it just to brag about it and I am supposed to be angry because I know it wasnāt genuinely someone who loves her.
I think thereās also a power aspect. Your mom is your parent, someone with some power or status over you, so if someone sleeps with her theyāre now on the level of your parents, it implies that youāre no longer equal peers but a step-parent/child relationship
If this were the case then āI fucked your dadā would be just as common an insult, with all the same connotations.
I feel like most people who would do this (males trying to seem āalphaā) probably wouldnāt be comfortable saying that, for whatever reason.
Instead of, āi fucked your dad,ā we tend to say things like, āyour dad is so hot!ā or suggest someones dad in a game of MFK. I would argue that itās more cringey because āyour mamaā jokes are much more common than āyour daddyā jokes. Also, unrelated, there seems to be something that really irritates Latino men when you makes jokes about their sister.
yeah those get thrown around in my friend group sometimes too. I think āi fucked your parentā jokes are usually made by straight dudes (which thereās a lot to unpack there) though, so itās more common for them to go for the gender theyāre attracted to. Not always tho
I think the person I responded to isnāt wrong, just that itās not the whole picture. I was/am trying to āyes, andā their comment
The other misogynistic element is the Madonna/Whore complex, in my opinion.
Mothers are often classically viewed as the Madonna (itās in the name), so theyāre good and kind and virtuous.
However, Iāve insinuated that I fucked your mom, and if your mom has fucked, that means sheās a Whore because a Good Womantm doesnāt have a sexuality. By claiming that Iāve fucked your mom, Iām claiming to have defiled the sacred Madonna and turned her into a profane Whore.
In other words, saying āI fucked your momā is basically saying āyour momās a slutā, and in a worldview where women wanting to fuck is a sign of evil, thatās an insult.
My mom was like that. š¤£š
The publicly available children maintenance service data (UK) suggests that one in three people are calling the wrong person dad (about a third of challenged women claiming child maintenance from a random dude will be shown to be wrong by DNA).
Mum will try to deny it. Then DNA became a thing for pennies. Join an genealogy fb group and support the broken kids looking for their now-dead fathers.
Thatā¦ seems to be a bit of a leap. Youāve got to assume that challenged women are representative of the whole population. To issue a challenge you probably have some reason to suspect.
One in three is not one-in-ten one might expect. And itās not hundreds itās thousands of women making false claims for money against male victims.
We donāt have population (in the statistical sense) data to know for sure. Maybe the passport biometric data will eventually let us know for sure.
However, there are other individuals involved, usually in the act of conception, not just women.
āIām on the pill/implant/coil ā¦ you donāt have to wear a condom. Take the condom off.ā. A female paedophile teacher has just been jailed here because the baby made it kind-of obvious she was lying. Apparently she got pregnant whilst she was on bail with the same child.
Dunno but Iāll let you know once Iām done banging your mom
Iāve always thought all mom disses were dumb af.
I didnāt run into them until I moved to a new school at 8yo where I guess they were popular and I was just like wtf are you talking about?
Yeah like āyo mamma is so fat thatā¦ā
āYes, I am really worried that she will die bc of her diabetesā.
āyo momma is so fatā¦ never mind. Damn bro Iām so sorry to hear that!ā
Itās just a funny comment like, āhowās your wife and my kidsā or āsay hi to your sister for me.ā
