4 points

You’re banned too You’re welcome

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-Looks out window. Lawn’s engulfed in flames. Closes window shades.-

“All better.”

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I mean, if there’s not anything I can do beyond dumping a thimble of water on the fire six months from now I’d rather just die happy.

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Two things

  1. Politics is for Power provides a pretty good model for thinking about this https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Politics-Is-for-Power/Eitan-Hersh/9781982116798

There’s a lot of political hobbyism on social media in general and Lemmy is really bad for it. Take for example the constant Elon Musk rage bait. No one is doing anything productive with that information. They’re just getting mad

  1. Social media, in general, isn’t a good way to get informed. It makes you feel really in touch but when a lot of the time you’re getting biased and polarizing that is often as enraging as it is unproductive

We treat politics like entertainment and it’s making our politics worse. Personally I try to limit my exposure to politics that I don’t think will be productive. It might feel like the most important thing in the moment but it’s often a huge waste of time

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I whole heartedly agree, and I’ve added that book to my “To Read” list

Thanks

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12 points

closes blinds

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You make some great points. I’ve seen this in action locally - it’s a tiny minority who actually make the effort to change things and they have an amazing success rate, in part because they are often unopposed. The barrier to entry is deceptively low. I think I’m going to read that book.

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8 points

Perhaps I’m old and tired, but I think that the chances of finding out what’s actually going on are so absurdly remote that the only thing to do is to say, “Hang the sense of it,” and keep yourself busy. I’d much rather be happy than right any day.

  • Douglas Adams
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9 points

Great quote, but missing a rather crucial bit at the end:

“And are you?” “No. That’s where it all falls down, of course.” “Pity”, said Arthur. “It sounded like rather a good lifestyle otherwise.”

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That is such a hard lesson learned; being happy rather than right. It’s one I’m trying to learn more and more, and it has helped.

RIP Douglas Adams. He was an intergalactic treasure. 👍 🦏

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28 points

Tbf, Lemmy is a place to unwind for many people, we have enough boring exhausting shit going on irl.

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3 points

It’s a link aggregator, if you don’t like politics you’re in the wrong format of social media.

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11 points

Ah right, because those other forms of social media aren’t also infested with politics.

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17 points

Better post about how doomed you are, that’ll fix it.

But for real, some of the communities I’m in have a rule about not posting about negative stories without adding a way to take action, a way to contribute, etc so that it’s not just doom scrolling negativity. Bad news is everywhere and it’s easy to find, anyone can do that.

Taking those bad feelings and channeling them towards something other than wallowing in how bad things are is the important part, not posting and reading. Someone who reads one bad news story a week and calls their representative about it is doing infinitely more than someone who reads every negative story out there to stay “informed”.

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15 points

I LOVE the idea of including how to take action. As much as Lemmy loves all the guillotine and cranial ventilation comments, they’re not actionable or productive for 99.99% of the user base.

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15 points

Have you considered the fact that not everybody lives in the US?

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Most of us have depressing shit happening at home, we don’t need to constantly be reminded of the dumpster fire that is US politics. We have even less influence on that shit than people having to live in that failed state.

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7 points

What if they’re not American

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5 points

There is a global authoritarian campaign to undermine democracies across the globe, the US is not the only country having serious trouble right now.

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4 points

The picture is specifically about not wanting to hear about US politics

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I’ve bad news about the military base next door to them.

America sneezes, and the world catches a cold.

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2 points

Now that’s the Doomer mindset!

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I post to Lemmy a lot and generally try my best to not contribute to the doom and gloom for this reason. I think there’s a difference between wanting to stay informed and getting addicted to the outrage/doom posts.

I’m mostly here to joke around with people and nerd out in a handful of niche interest communities.

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And we love you for it.

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13 points

<3

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3 points

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Bless you for it. All this place seems to to be is Musk rage bait, jerking off Linux, and Star Trek memes, and only one of those things is acceptable.

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Phrased in exactly the way I’d expect from a plain, simple tailor.

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2 points

Hey now, there’s nothing wrong with star trek.

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3 points

We need more of you and less of us. I’m getting sucked into it too. Time to start posting cute pictures of my pets.

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1 point

Niche communities… Sure.

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Same, I ban all US politic subs as well

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Yeah, the doomposting is intense on Lemmy. I’ve taken up a policy of just downvoting any negative posts I see, even if I like the post otherwise, just to tamp down the negativity a bit around here.

The best and worst thing about Lemmy is how niche we are. It keeps out the “mainstream”, but unfortunately we’re easily inundated by perpetually-online doomers.

Also, I would recommend blocking users moreso than communities. Once you start looking for it, you realize that like 90% of these posts are made by just a few people/bots.

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20 points

…trying to determine if your post is positive or negative, up or down…

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Tell ya what, you up vote it and I’ll down vote it and all should be right in the world.

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6 points

What shall I do with your post?

Should we invoke quantum string theory?

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4 points

Good question, I suppose I’m being negative about negativity.

Honestly, feel free to downvote, you have my blessing lol.

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If you make a decent negative argument, in a perfect world it should be an upvote.

“If”, tho’…

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8 points

Yeah. I just take a quick peek at their comment history to see if I should just block them. Works great.

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3 points

I plead with you to check mine just a wee bit longer,

i paid someone a compliment back in the day.

Plus, your writing style is adorable!

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And this is why the whole check their comments to judge them as an entire person is a terrible idea

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5 points

You respond to negativity by downvoting everything negative?

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7 points

Yes.

Downvoting isn’t “negativity”, it’s a method for users to define what does and does not contribute to the content of the platform. By downvoting this content, I’m voicing my opinion that negativity is overrepresented on Lemmy, and encouraging (however slightly) more positive content to be posted.

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4 points

That’s the ideal. In reality, it is 98% of the time a disagree button and that is how everyone perceives it.

I completely agree that what you’re doing should be how it is, but sadly that’s just not reality.

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If only more people would understand this, we would already have world peace.

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Also, I would recommend blocking users moreso than communities. Once you start looking for it, you realize that like 90% of these posts are made by just a few people/bots.

I wish there was an easy way to block everyone from an instance, like *@shittylemmyinstance.poop or something. Yeah, I do have one instance blocked to avoid the content, but the posters seem fine, but there are a few where blocking users one at a time is like whack-a-mole.

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Agreed. Instance blocking needs to be more granular. Blocking posts from one is great, but it doesn’t keep the peanut gallery there from brigading the comments.

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2 points

Yes!

Users are consistent!

eg: I’m an arrogant asshole.

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2 points

got it. banned. /s

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I keep going back and forth on blocking them.

So far I haven’t because I’ve been using their success/failure as a barometer of the situation here. It can be exhausting though

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I find that switching to my ‘subscribed’ feed and sorting by newest weeds out 95% of the doom and outrage. Most single-topic communities are really positive. You very occasionally get a itinerant doomer or naysayer coming out of the woodwork and being rabidly cynical, but in something like a gardening or saxophone community their comment always just looks silly and out of place and is usually easy to ignore.

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Unfortunately I’m cursed with a preference for opt-out (all + block lists) post filtering rather than opt-in (subscriptions). I realize this causes issues that are entirely on me, but especially with Lemmy being so small, I like to cast as wide a net as I can.

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